This one is a little different...


We aren't dating. But I like the girl... had history, fucked her, now we are distant, trying to respark interest

What the fuck can i get her for christmas




Also while I am talking about Christmas presents it.... what can I get my little sister?

Don't bother get her anything unless it's something extremely small like $2.

This entirely depends how old your sister is.. ahahaha. You could give her me if she's the appropriate age jokes .

Just talk to her and spark the interest by letting her know you're interested, best way to go about it.

Want to go into more detail about it ...

Me and her fooled around for 1 month, she had a boyfriend, one drunken night we fucked... and she felt bad and ended everthing wiht me and stayed with her boyfriend

i am completely still into this girl and actually chasing her.. its a game, and i dont even know how to play this situation....


I have oneitis

Oh. Judging by this second post the worst thing you can do is buy her a christmas present. If you really want her you need to play it smooth. Ignore the boyfriend at all costs! Don't let her get him in the topic and you shall never bring it up. Other than this golden rule just game her like you'd game any other girl and for God's sake don't buy her damn presents unless you're committed or want to be her BFF.

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Do not buy her a present?

What message would i be sending her if i bought her a present?


How DO i act to this girl now? and what if she buys me one and i dont buy her one

I don't get it... It's not about messages dude but just get this. I don't buy presents for girls that I just only fucked once, and neither do I expect them to do so. I mean...why would I? I buy presents for my friends, family, and my gf. There is just no other reason I can think of I'd buy someone something. How do you act... Let's see.

1) You stop whinning and start growing a pair.
By this, I mean that it's your life mate. Noone's gonna tell you how to live your life because it's yours. But one thing I want to tell you is that for the same reason try caring more about yourself than some random bitch you fucked once. Show some respect to yourself.

2) You realise there's no such thing as a one-itis, it's just your insecure mind fucking with you.(I also don't like this term because in medical terminology, "itis" refers to inflammations)

3) AFTER you've cleared your mind out of this stupid BS you start digging deep and decide whether this chick is worth all the trouble. (You'll most likely see that she is not...)

4) Combined by your now existing balls and your now cloudfree common sense you make a mature decision on what's next.

And NOW I'll get to the part about what if you decide you stick with this chick, which I still recommend you not to, but whatever...

As I said, just game her like any other woman, but I can see that this was beyond your comprehension, which is not your fault, it's mine for not recognising your level. (I just assumed you had some understanding of shit because you managed to fuck her once) So... do you remember how did you act when you got laid with her? Because...just probably...what worked once could work twice. Or I don't know about how many chicks you've fucked so far, but if there's more then I really don't get your problem.

Oh... almost forgot. What if she buys you one, and you don't? *Evil laugh* Tell her that her present is at yours

And for the last question... I don't know about your sister but is it really that hard? Buy her an album of her favourite music band, or a movie which is her style, or a book she'd love, or if no other idea just a cute stuffed animal.

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Why would she buy you one, it doesn't sound like your current relationship is at that level.

It's a bad idea to buy her a present because she'll feel like she's obliged to act a certain way towards you BECAUSE you bought her a present, this will only be bad as far as her image for you goes. It also could come off as needy, and a number of other things.

If you don't buy her a present, it'll come off normal. That's what you want.

Just one more thing. I really don't mean to bash you. I may have been a little harsh in that last post but it was only for your own good. I used to be far worse than you. I wanted to give a valentine's day gift to a girl I've even talked to only ONCE. Just because she was pretty. This was 3 years ago, and now if I look back, or at your situation, acts like this are beyond my current comprehension. Just out of my reality. It just makes no sense at all. As you develop your skills in pick-up and in general social interactions you will see what I'm talking about.

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