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PostPosted: Thu Dec 08, 2011 3:43 pm 
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im actually afraid this book will make things worse if i read it ... but u never know until you try right? i'll order it, sounds interesting


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I just cant believe that you approach like crazy and have zero success. According to me, most people I know having a lack of success, think girls are blind creatures with only ears. They think that the only important things to attract women is the lines you say. They don't realize that girls also have eyes and can like a guy for the way he looks.

I mean, I know several aspiring PUA's that also approach a lot but hardly have success. When I look at them, I see the same pattern. They have no presence. They don't represent an interesting type of person. They have the balls to approach. Their game is better than average. But they dress below average. They are physically not fit. They are not well groomed (uninteresting/ugly hairstyle). You don't have to look like Brad Pitt to score girls, but you have to take care of the way you look. The better you look, the more success you will have.

As far as your hair concerns, just standing out means nothing. If I take off my pants in the middle of the bar and shit on the floor, I will also stand out. But in a bad way. If you have extremely long and dirty hair you will stand out because of being the worst groomed and most smelly person in the room. That is not gonna help you. If you have long hair like e.g. Gambler has ... that is a good way to stand out. BUT not everyone is suited for long hair. It really depends on how you look like. For example, if you have a very narrow face you should not consider long hair. Anyway, if your friends tell you that your hair doesnt look well, there must be some truth in it. Go to a decent hairdresser, preferably a woman or a gay man and let them help you chose a hairstyle that suits you.

If you are really bad looking don't try to only open 10's. I am not saying that you can't get a 10 if you are bad looking, but of course it is gonna be much more difficult. Lower your standards. I am not saying that you should go for fatties (unless you have some secret fetish for them) but focus on 6's and 7's.


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 4:57 pm 
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black fantom

WHere is the link on your signature?

Can u send me the link to your personal? i couldnt find it.

-Juice man


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2011 12:00 pm 
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Black Phantom, correct me if I am wrong. You are offering this guy help with approaching. But he has no problems approaching. He is approaching a lot but he isn't getting any results.


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