Jo guys,

another.. what's wrong Thread :/

Monday I found a HB7, got her IM and we chatted (of my point of view) damn nice. at the beginning she doesnt seemed very interested, but later she opened, even said that she lives alone with her mother and her grandparents died but it's okay for her bla bla. (I said, Christmas is just around the door and I look forward to see my grandma). She started to ask questions and later I asked her, if we should take a call in the next day's. (well no number, I had to go offline was smth around 2 a.m.)

I had no time on Tuesday to get online and ask her for a call/number.

Wednesday I just had time to say her, that we can talk tomorrow, I'll ring her at lunchtime. I was on my way to do some sport and I added her on facebook, she accepted within a minute. After the sport, I see that she has deleted me from their friends and no response in the IM. now she's offline.

What to do?
But more importand, does she was'nt interested in my profile/look or I just screwed it up with the: hey, how about a talk tomorrow, I'll call you?

Its just one girl, forget her and move on to the next

Ye sure, I know. I will call tomorrow with another girl. So it's not the point. It's more about to learn where I go wrong. not enough comfort build, that I asked her "in the middle of nowhere, that we can call tomorrow?"

Did her grandparents die recently? I'm asking because you made a point of mentioning you're going to see your grandma, and it might have been construed as insensitive and turned her off.

I wouldn't have asked to call, I'd have gotten the number and just called it shows you're assertive and willing to take initiate rather than lolly gagging around not securing her digits; could have seemed like a pussy on her part that you weren't asking.

Sounds like it's a dead letter at this point (I hate fb, and i tell girls i dont have it - too much dramacidal stuff on there, and reading stuff on a girls wall may just add to your paranoia).

If you like her text her in a week or so dont even acknowledge she deleted you from FB just act like nothing happened and be all enthused in your text; if anything it'll be worth a few laughs, she'll probably be stunned. Send just 1 text though, if you get no response don't contact her again or you'll throw off stalker vibes and that's not cool.

Thats a great answer! Damn, thank you!

I dont know if her grandparents recently died, she just told me, that they are dead... Before that she asked me, what I'm doing at christmas. Here we go.

Okay, your right! But how do I get her number without even asking for a call?
Gimme your number! Sounds wierd

Well you've got to re-establish rapport. Text her, but don't send her long drawn-out messages, keep things short, light & airy, and funny - bring up something that made you think of her "was doing blah blah blah and totally reminded of (something involving her somehow)" I'm half asleep my material isn't going to be very good now, but keep it real chill. I wouldn't ask her out right away, this is all about re-establishing communication and drawing her back in again. There's a good chance she may not respond, at least right away and that's fine just go do your thing, go out and create other opportunities with other girls don't hang on the line. Just think of what you're going to text her, don't let too much time pass, be creative - you generated interest from her once, so long as you didn't say anything catastrophic I think it's just a matter of saying the 'right' thing to eliciting a response (like a key to a lock, but there may be many keys to that same lock).

Thanks a lot!
Well, I think I'll just go NEXT!
But I will take your advices for the next one

Eff that noise. Give it one more shot you've got nothing to lose if she doesn't respond leave it alone.