OK, so I've been in a strong exclusive relationship with this great girl, and our feelings for each other are mutual. We both earn very little, and whilst I live with my rich parents, she lives alone in a single room, and just about makes ends meet. Nevertheless, she has never let it come in the way of our relationship, and despite her money troubles, she pays for her share every single time without fail, and insists upon it. Anyway, it is Christmas soon, and she's returning to Madrid for a week, and she's recently been asking me to buy her some shoes(Uggs). She's gone about it in a typical girly, cute and childish way. I've always laughed it off with 'So you want hugs, eh?', which makes her laugh, but she's said it enough to make me think that she really does want me to get it for her. So my question is, should I?

yeah why not?

The only reason I ask is because neither of us have yet to buy a present for one another.

I have absolutely no problem paying for everything (meals, drinks, tickets). I do it without thinking and I can afford it. BUT I would be REALLY annoyed if a girl would ask me for stuff.


It may be stupid but I don't even mind paying for shoes when I know it's not expected from me. I would walk away if I got the feeling that she wants something from me.

But that's probably me. I started making money at fairly early age and have IRRATIONAL fear of gold diggers.

how did she ask you exactly ?

also if you like her and she has a good character then why not ''?

make it fun tho...don't just give it to her...=p

Yes, you should. Not in a robot-like way, she asks, you buy - make it a little fun, and make sure she receives it as a surprise even though she asked for it. Maybe make it an early Christmas present, so she has more time to use it in the cold weather. ("Hey, I know it's not Christmas yet, but I got these for you. I figured I'll give it to you early so you can use them more this year. Do I get some huggs? " something along these lines.) After you give it to her, you can immediately invite her for a snowball fight or a walk in the cold, so she will have good memories with it right away, as a cherry on top.

turn it to a game. " i mean yea i could probably hook you up with some boots, whats in it for me girl??" haha