New here, been reading up on all the PUA stuff for a couple of weeks now, but i always find excuses to not do the approaches when i'm out there. I always decide that there's something better i should be doing, but im here to seek some courage and motivation from this community, hopefully you guys can help a noob AFC on a journey to become a good pick up artist and have success with women, i really need to get this part of my life straightened out as most of you know how frustrating it is.

thanks

Welcome! The best thing you can do for yourself is to just put yourself out there and start approaching people. You'll learn from trial and error what to do and what not to do. You have nothing to lose and a lot to gain!

Welcome to the start of your new obsession...

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Approach i belive is a still big factor for me. I gave my approach tactics by approaching this girl i was already fimmiliar with. My new confidence, my tactics, my game left her all dazzeled. I actually felt a very low amount of approach anxiety because i knew her from my past and i knew i had nothing to loose. Approaching fimiliar women gives you the oppertunity to say " I was kidding" i f you feel somethings going wrong and ofcourse you are devloping the game inside you.

If you trust me sir, it was only the confidence i needed else she would have been mine since long. Belive in your game an devlop it overtime. I am doing the same alongwith you.. Forever a faithfull student..CARD

hey man, i'm new to this too and have similar feelings about this part of my life. welcome to the board, i guess, even though i'm new myself.

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puhaha same here. Approach anxiety as they say.
I'm guilty myself.
But I was having this interesting discussion with my friend today and he brought up an interesting correlation between the anxiety to approaching a woman to asking your boss for a raise.
You probably thought about both for a while, but you've yet to act on it.
Why is this so? Because they're seen to be of higher status and we're not worthy of their attention?

Reality is that is not the case.

You'll find answers on this forum. I know i did.

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yea there are far more topics and applications for this knowledge than having just sex with more women.

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