Lately I havn't been having a lot of succes, which I think was mostly due to me not balancing learning and practicing that well going a LOT more towards learning, however last few days I've been really working on rapport skills, practicing with more or less anything that had a head to fuck with.

Today I was looking for a certain hairstylist in a very crowded area of the city, and no mather how good google maps is at finding entrances that are 80 centimeters wide, I couldn't find it. So I thought I'd just ask a single good looking lady that was shopping there. I started my routine that I was perfecting, which works more or less on her subconcious. While I was asking where the shop was and talking about the area and stores. I started out with reading her eyes, body language, Voice and speech. And found out she was one of those internal types with not a lot of friends but they were good friends. So the horrible person that I am, I adjust my body language, voice, Breathing, eyes, all that stuff to what type she was. As rapport builds a lot faster between people of the same type. and I was getting hungry, so once I was pretty sure I had enough rapport to bounce her to a subway (sandwiches) 3 meters away, I did. Asked her number Before we bounced, with something like: Hey, better give me your number in case you get lost on your way there! (Yeah this is translated)

After that we talked for a few minutes, then It was time for me to actually find the hairstylist and get my hair done, I closed with a kiss on my cheeck and went into a very well hidden entrance to the hairstylist that was a few meters away.

Sounds good, but what i want to know is how you read her voice, speech and body language. What was it that you looked for? how did you make it work for you?

That is LOADS of work It's something I've been working on more or less every day for a few hours. I've read a lot of books, including: the art of speedreading people, Tricks of the mind, 3 books on speaking which I can't remember the names from, the absolute book of body language, Influence, and some more plus a lot of articles on nlp, I have a 1 hour a week training from a family member of mine who is a psychiatrist.

And the most important part, I've been practicing a lot. First on people I know, and starting this week I've been just Talking to anything trying to read stuff, and attuning myself to it.

As for guessing if I had enough rapport to bounce, that was a big guess But basically you look for IoIs, I normally just look for a slight tilt in the head, playing with hair and I've been trying to get to notice pupils getting bigger, but I find that hard.

I wouldn't recommend doing this Only if your really interested in it.