Dear all PUAs,

I met this HB9 two weeks ago while I went out with my friends. I was confident and alpha all the way that night. She test me by acting cold and such and I passed them all with distinction and she asked for my number and I gave it. I said to her: If you don't call me in 2 days, I will move on.

She txt me 2 days later and game on. I responded semi-playfully and try to play abit hard to get. A few days later I asked her out however she shot me down. I continued gaming and asked again, and got shot down one more time. Finally I get to meet her on the 3rd date and I was all confident and such, however she gave me this 'let's just be friends' bullshit, saying she does not want a boyfriend now. Then she said she is not sure about me....

The only thing I can think of is maybe I give in too easily..I mean from an extreme attractive alpha into someone who gets hooked easy.

I responded her 'let's just be friends' message with ease and say it's kool....

Boys, is this over ? Move on ?

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you missed your opportunity bro. You needed to escalate on that first date.

potential boyfriends dont go for the home run. You needed to kclose or fclose after the first date.

now its not a lost cause because you can invite her to a party this upcoming weekend but do not invite her for a date. it will send the wrong message if you want a 1v1 meeting again. a party you can dhv and socialize with other people.

i can get into this more but i recommend calling the girl in a day or so, talk about random things, build comfort and then towards the end mention the weekend and the party that you are going to. do not invite her outright because she will by instinct reject like

say something cocky funny like
"i need a wingman this weekend, you available to party friday?"
"I bet you you are a party girl, you should come with me and my friends to this party"
"i need a robin to my SPAM, you can be my wing-woman" (not the best but is good if you are corny and tossing jokes all the time lol)

etc etc etc

but sometimes asking what they are doing on a friday and they respond with nothing or im not sure... you can go very direct with "i want you to join me for ------"

it puts her on the spot and forces her to make a decision. it can be effective sometimes but the other times she will flake like anything else.

good luck bro

J Slay

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Why is she talking about a boyfriend on the day 2? Is this what you conveyed to her that youre looking for?
I wouldnt even consider buying the car without test driving it first, but thats me.
I'd treat her like a normal friend at this point so you dont sound needy or clingy and see what happens. Maybe run some push pull game on her.
She was obviously attracted to you when she gave you the number so get her back to feeling that way.

I agree with both of u guys, seems like I failed on escalation and turned from alpha to needy / emotional guy. Women can smell it miles away....

btw, can u be more specific on escalation ?

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Escalation is the variety of steps needed to bring a girl from the opener to fclose.

escalation can be many things including but not limited to: kino, escalating the intensity of conversation, turning the conversation into topics about sex and sexual overtones...

basically increasing her buying temperature which is basically getting her horny so she wants to fuck you right then and there.

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You miss 100% of the shots you never take.
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