Okay guys, just another WTF moment... WTF?!

I was entering the bus today to come back to college and I find her in the back. I say hey and what not, sit next to her.

The entire trip, we were talking about stuff, I kino'd a lot and she complied. But when I went for the kiss, she rejected... I acted like I didn't care, and we started to talk again.

When we got off the bus, we were standing there and I said "goodbye", and reached for her lips, and she said "I don't wanna".

So, guys... I cannot make sense of it all right now. WTF happened back there?

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"What we're doing is so wrong, and what you're wearing is so right (it's so tight!). But I've never felt better, so I'm going out to get her and I don't care what set of wheels I steal to get there."

Move on

She wants you to beg so she can feel she has control over you. At this point she is mindfucking

She rejected the first kiss, you should have left without trying a 2nd

Cut contact. Imaturity is a stupid thing.

W8 her for the contact.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Are you sure shes your girlfriend man...

It sure doesnt sound like it.

I think she broke up with you and you didnt receive the text message lol

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he

You never answered the question of if this girl is your GF or a girl you macking. Other details might help since advice will differ on if you have "dating" her for 2 weeks or 3 years.

Side note: Have some self respect man, if someone does something to hurt you intentionally don't pretend everything is ok. I am a stubborn person and have burnt many bridges in my day over acts I didn't think were directed in my best interest. I rather walk away with my dignity then be treated like a second class human being.

She is ( or was, don't really know right now) my GF.

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"What we're doing is so wrong, and what you're wearing is so right (it's so tight!). But I've never felt better, so I'm going out to get her and I don't care what set of wheels I steal to get there."

two weeks is a little long in my opinion. Maybe 5 days. She texted you which is good though, and dont listen to anyones speculation on here about cheating and all that shit. Truth is no one on here can tell you what shes doing just by looking at texts.

Also i think were all confused on your status with this girl. Is it your girlfriend, a girl you hook up with, a girl you recently started talking to, what?

Either freeze out for around a week, or just start text back, if your in a relationship you should be past most games like that

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FAIL PROOF PICK UP LINE: excuse my, im sorry to bother you but my father beats me, can i have your number.

I texted her yesterday night, she seemed normal, started answering back the way she did before ( lol'ing at my remarks and whatnot).

So today, Friday night, I'm thinking of inviting her for dinner. Have a couple questions though:

- what should I do about the "hi" and "goodbye" kisses? I mean, normally it would be like a regular couple, lips to lips... but since since last time she wasn't so keen on it, I don't wanna push it too hard... anyway I can get her to kiss me normally?

- If she says she's busy or something, should I just say "Ok, next time" and stop the texts right there or continue to text as if it's no big deal?

Cheers

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"What we're doing is so wrong, and what you're wearing is so right (it's so tight!). But I've never felt better, so I'm going out to get her and I don't care what set of wheels I steal to get there."

If she's busy, I'd just next her, like really, there's a limit. I think you need to sleep with her ASAP and not worry about kissing, but getting her into bed and becoming a normal couple again. If she refuses to even kiss you, tell her you should see other people, since she's not being a very good girlfriend. God, women can be such bitches!

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Hey jovem... ignora a miuda. meaning ignore the girl. You have chased her far too many times and she is always ignore you. Are you the only one interested in saving this relantioship

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

@ Txacoli, sorry, didn't understand what do you mean by "I'd just next her" lol
And yes, I do agree that I need to her to bed ASAP

@Snake Doctor, the thing is now she talks to me normally, which leads me to believe there's still something there, and I just need to get to the bottom of it.

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"What we're doing is so wrong, and what you're wearing is so right (it's so tight!). But I've never felt better, so I'm going out to get her and I don't care what set of wheels I steal to get there."

What I meant, if she blows you off again, just break up with her, what's the point of having a gf if she doesn't want to see you and go to bed with you. Give it one more go, but don't get caught up in her mind games.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Is she doing blowjob?

Being affectionate?

Spending time?

Or she just playing games with you, fuck her... ignore the girl. break up, you are a man not a mice. Hoping she forgives you for somehting you didnt do.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Falando por experiência, eu acho que ela está das duas uma:
1 - À espera que sejas um homem e mostres isso, as in, ignorando-a ou o caralho.
2 - A mais provável para mim, a querer ficar solteira mas tem coragem para tomar o primeiro passo e acabar contigo.

Honestamente, devias acabar tu com ela. Custa para carago e parece notar-se que gostas da rapariga, mas é melhor do que seres desprezado aos poucos e tratado como lixo.

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A translation would be very nice
If I understand correctly you say she is waiting for him to show her he's a real man or she wants to break off but doesn't have the guts to do it so she's waiting for him to break up? This could very well be it.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.