This started out decently...but not sure what to say next without giving her control of the frame. Or is too late? lol. I'm new to online dating btw.


Me: Your profile intrigued me, but you said nothing about your ice-cream preferences.
That's kind of important, wouldn't you agree?

Dec 5, 2011 – 12:17am
HB9:don't worry i like chocolate

Dec 5, 2011 – 5:26pm
Me: ...so door number 3 or mystery box?

Dec 5, 2011 – 8:25pm
HB9: mystery box


Dec 5, 2011 – 11:07pm
Me: ahhh, so you're one of THOSE girls

Dec 5, 2011 – 11:32pm
HB9:depends on your definition of THOSE??? what's in the mystery box???


Dec 5, 2011 – 11:45pm
Me: don't worry.It's a good thing...maybe. I'm futurereign

Dec 5, 2011 – 11:46pm
HB9:I don't think this will work...you don't seem to have a good imagination....


Dec 5, 2011 – 11:58pm
Me: lol...are you breaking up with me already?

Dec 6, 2011 – 12:02am
HB9: not if you can prove me otherwise

This is just playful banter and her having the typical frame of a 9. She's using false disqualifiers and things to see if you'll go away easily...to see if that's all it takes to get rid of you. Women want persistent men. Use your imagination and reveal what's in the Mystery Box and What's Behind Door #3. Keep being playful it's working for you.

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lol you're a brat tell ya what, tell me how adventurous you are and i'll tell you whats in the mystery box...


or alternatively...


lol you're feisty tell ya...

thanks for the advice dudes.I used my imagination and this chick went sexual fast. Going out this weekend.

Nicely done. That is exactly how playful chatting should be done. It doesn't surprise me this went sexual fast and that you have a date with her this weekend.