To be honest, i don't want to replace her boyfriend, but i do want to sleep with her. She has shown a couple IOI's but it seems like this is kind of normal behavior for her, so maybe its not that shes interested, but that shes just like that. I still haven't finished reading the venusian handbook(i've hardly even started) so i don't know if im just clueless right now. Now my dilemma is whether or not she would actually sleep with me(being that she has a b/f) and not expect to get with me. and if she DOES do that kind of stuff, i would like to get to her before anyone else in the office does. Where should i start? do you guys need more info? what do you need to know?

Some girls are willing to cheat on their boyfriends to fuck a guy, but you got to create more attraction than her boyfriend has. Honestly, a boyfriend means nothing. Sometimes girls will say that they have a boyfriend when they really don't to DHV. It's just another obstacle, so good luck!

Welcome to the forum Crypto.

Ok, ravage, yeah, a little more info would be helpful. As in, do you know for sure that he has a b/f? If so, do you know the status of their relationship? Or how serious they are?

Sure, if you build her attraction to you more than what her attraction is to her b/f, at least in that moment, then she will want you. But, some girls act on it and some don't. And, if her b/f satisfies her enough, you won't be able to build that attraction in her anyway.

LOL, guys try to get my girl attracted to them all the time, but it doesn't work.

Also, YES, you need to finish the Handbook. It will give you AMAZING insight into all of the social interactions around you.

yea, she definitely has a b/f and she says she's going to bring him to the christmas celebration for work too. according to her, theyve been together for 3 years. hah, im reading it slowly and steadily...trying to not overwhelm myself with information.

any-good-boyfriend-destroyer-routines-vt11365.html

I posted on the subject there.

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Yeah, it's packed with info. Just use it when you learn it, lol.