I've always felt that guys that have either money or fame had it a lot easier and to me it felt like "cheating" in a way. I thought, yes his money gets the girls, or his fame etc. But recently I've realised it's not about those things, these things are just the attractor factor so to speak. It took me a long time to get over the fact that girls are simply attracted to these things because they speak volume about the guy's personality. A certain amount of competence, perseverance, intelligence, dominance is required to get such a status. I've always thought "but I want her to like me for me". This is really an AFC way of thinking. Then you wonder how come you don't get any 10s. Well, it's pretty obvious.
I'm writing this post because there may be more guys that feel this way and deep down they're envious of the guys that do get the 10s because of their status. That's what I was. Pure envy.
So you decide to improve yourself, you hit the gym, get a style, sort out your inner game. All good. But why stop there? You're not being dishonest or "cheating" or taking a shortcut if you leverage your lifestyle to get you into position to game 10s with an automatic DHV.
A conversation with a lovely girl who recently joined the forum reminded me what I wanted to accomplish when I first started out. And I remember saying to myself I would do what it takes to get the really beautiful ones. I haven't done that for a long time, but now I'm well on my way to a DHV lifestyle that surrounds you with beautiful women, with more opportunity and DHV position from the start. It involves a lot of effort, it involves getting out of your comfort zone, yes it can be hard, but I think it's worth it.
It is simply doing what it takes.
Your comments are welcome.
Cheers guys!

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Pozz,

I couldn't agree more. Attractive lifestyle is not something you want to fake. It's something you have to achieve for your own benefit. I built my business so it would suit the lifestyle I want. I wanted money (who doesn't) but I also wanted the option to pack my shit and just travel.

For example. I live 200km from you (NW). Last winter when we got snow here I packed and went to Spain for 3 months. I did this for myself and noone else.

When people around me saw that I'm living my life the way I want I got that "head start" you're talking about. I had crazy attraction from girls around me instantly. And that was just a side effect of me enjoying myself. Win-win.

Pozz!
Thanks for replying I was wondering, were you always this determined guy, who goes after what he wants, or did you go through a some kind of transformation to make it happen?

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

I was always determined when it came to just about everything but women.

I just figured out at early age that you make your own luck. No one will ever give you the things you dream of. You have to take control and get it your self.

The moment you start calling your "dreams" "goals" is the moment you'll start improving your life.

I never had this attitude when it came to women. Mostly cuz' I never had problems with getting girls from my social circle. I only recently (about two years ago) figured out that I need to act the same way I do in business or life when it comes to girls if I want to get the girls I see on the street and not wait to meet them through my friends.

I love this one! ^This!^

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

That quote has just given me a lovely kick in the nuts.

Awesome quote.