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PostPosted: Sun Dec 04, 2011 9:40 pm 
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Is your dating profile floating in cyber space, moth eaten, dusty and generating zero interest?
 
Here are 5 simple steps to change it into a chick magnet.
 
(1)Photos
First off, if you have dozens of random photos uploaded get rid of all but one.  The one that you keep should be classy and attractive.  No cheesy mock-model poses (unless you happen to be an actual model).  If you can afford it get your photos done professionally, a good photographer knows how to take the most flattering pictures.  Ideally you want something with you surrounded by other women and / or partaking in a cool activity like surfing, martial arts, playing an instrument etc.  You don’t have to be a surfer or musician necessarily, at this stage we are just trying to get initial interest.  If you’re a teen or twenty-something perhaps the best photo would be of you with both arms around two girls holding a beer bottle in each hand.  For more mature users (30 plus) use your discretion.  Go for classier / more sophisticated social settings but keep the principle the same.
 
(2)Cut down on your ‘about me’ section.
Don’t waffle on about how you like to take long country walks, watch romantic sunsets or dine out.  In short; don’t be boring or predictable.
 
(3)Beef up your social proof
Never, never, NEVER state that you have turned to online dating out of desperation.  Say that you are ‘a very busy individual’ and have no time to meet women the traditional way.  I personally like to use the line; ‘I have decided to outsource my dating life’.  Another point I like to make is; don’t state you are looking for a relationship.  It’s better to put ‘looking for hangout’ or ‘friends’.  Stating you are looking for love is a sign of neediness.
 
(4)Get selective
Replace stuff about your hobbies and interests and add in things you want and DON’T want in a woman.  For example I always state that ‘time wasters and high maintenance chicks need not apply’. Don’t be afraid of being picky.  This displays discerning tastes and is a huge turn on for a woman.
 
(5)Throw in some humour.
Ever hear that woman like a man with a sense of humour?  Well it’s true.
As a cheeky finisher to my profile I tend to write something like; ‘a woman who knows how to cook for her man is always a bonus ;)    
Be funny in a sophisticated, sarcastic kind of way and not in a crazy goofy way.
 
Try out these tips yourself.  I guarantee they WILL work.
 
For more tips click my link and download my FREE ebook.  For smartphone users download the free stanza app first.

As always look forward to hearing your success stories.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 04, 2011 10:02 pm 
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(1)Photos

Ideally you want something with you surrounded by other women and / or partaking in a cool activity like surfing, martial arts, playing an instrument etc.  You don’t have to be a surfer or musician necessarily, at this stage we are just trying to get initial interest.  If you’re a teen or twenty-something perhaps the best photo would be of you with both arms around two girls holding a beer bottle in each hand.
"Surrounded by women" is a bad move. makes you look like a player, triggers all the defenses associated with that. Women on dating sites are looking for any reason to disqualify you. Arms around two women with a beer, same thing. Best to have ONE woman in the pic, CLOSE to you, but not too intimate. And combine that with doing an interesting activity as BenedictTyler mentioned.

But its still good to have a small handful of pics, say 3-5, with different activities, to appeal to a broader variety of interests. And studies have shown that pics taken with better cameras are ranked as more attractive, so take those cell phone pics OFF. The graininess makes you look bad.
 
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(3)Beef up your social proof
Another point I like to make is; don’t state you are looking for a relationship.  It’s better to put ‘looking for hangout’ or ‘friends’.  Stating you are looking for love is a sign of neediness.
This is bumpy territory. I personally believe its better to be honest about what you're looking for. If you're on a dating site, women automatically believe you're looking for dating before they ever read your profile, so its going to come out as cowardly or dishonest to some women if you put hangout or friends, while others are going to interpret it as wanting to start slow. No matter what you put, you're going to be turning off some women, and appealing to others. So you may as well put dating if thats what you want, and start with the advantage of them believing you're genuine and honest about your intentions.

The one thing you probably SHOULDNT put is "sex" or "one night stand" or whatever version of that your site has. The vast majority of women will disqualify you INSTANTLY for that. Only put it if you're looking for prostitutes or an easy lay without regard to quality.
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(4)Get selective
Replace stuff about your hobbies and interests and add in things you want and DON’T want in a woman.  For example I always state that ‘time wasters and high maintenance chicks need not apply’. Don’t be afraid of being picky.  This displays discerning tastes and is a huge turn on for a woman.
Its important not to go OVERBOARD with this. Its easy to make yourself look like a dick by putting too many selection criteria here, or ones that are too shallow. And women on dating sites are already in "one-strike-you-lose" mode.

ALSO, you NEED stuff about your hobbies and interests in order to make you look human and provide some common ground to start from, not to mention finding women who will actually be fun for you to be with. So DO put SOME hobbies/interests in there.... Make sure you mention some general-appeal things ABOUT your interests, so that women can hook into the good feelings you get from it even if they DONT like the same things.

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