This is one thing that I find is very confusing and difficult. How do you hook a girl to make her want to initiate conversation. I know for a fact even girls that have liked me rarely if ever did which is really hateful cuz it throws off your game by making you be the one to always say hi...

lol.

Watch this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxjEJeKz ... plpp_video
at 5:10

So as you look down your pants, you will see two balls, and realise that they are there for a reason.

You are supposed to protect a girl, you suppose to have no fear, you are a man.
So show them that you have balls, and no fear. Everybody can approach/open.


As for girls opening you, you can try making eye contact and slightly smile. If she doesn't smile back, then you had a good view. If she does smile back... get your dick out and smack her. (Or just say Do I know you? )


Remember that when you're going to an job interview as a bartender, and they say No, it doesn't affect you, you just go for another job. IT DOESN'T MATTER!

your confusing the order of operations

your expected to approach and open, then once you hook she should reinitiate once she is attracted, that doesn't mean every time, its just an IoI your likly going to want.

Your real issue is A2 or generating female to male attraction, as I always say and I will republish from my e-book, once you figure out how to hook your 32.7% done with being a PUA master.
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Oh and Ghwizz that video at 5:10 is misleading for 2 reasons, first I promise you that guys ask for her number 20x more then she will ask a guy. Secondly if she is asking a guy, that's because shes shooting at or above her level, so for a hot girl like her, that will be guys pretty socially high up the food chain. The kind of guy shes going to approach and engage is very unlikely to be the kind of guy that's going to be on this forum as anything less then the exception.

Yeah my point was more like:

Why are guys scared to talk to you?
Cuz they're lame.

So those guys are lame.
And nobody wants to be lame.

oh ya I agree, guys that don't approach are fairly worthless.

I was at a bar once and approached a hot chick and she made the comment about how many hot, 25 year old, muscled, chuckle-heads mill about the place in groups, talk shit, and never approach chicks. Seems like those guys put a lot of work in for nothing except to bro-out at the bar and talk about high school sluts they banged back in the glory days while my old ass moves in on their woman.

OK Let me reword this cuz I think you guys are getting the idea that I dont want to approach/open girls.. Not the case that is dumb easy for me lmao. Im just naturally confident so I open whoever i want.. My thing is getting them to text "hey" first or fb message you first to start a convo later on during the attraction building/raport building phase.. Cuz i get facebooks, numbers, and aims all the time but i feel like i need a couple hooks to make them start a few convos every once in a while. Even the ones who eat up everything and are bubbly/flirty/smiley during the convo dont usually text first..

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seems everything that stumps me stumps EVERYBODY else on this site... idgi

This was simple.

Break off the conversation at a "high point", and she'd want to continue it from there.

Another technique that is used is to say something vague or unexpected, and then she will re-initiate at that point to understand "what you meant by that".

Regards,

Luke

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any examples?