hi, I am new to the forum tonight so hope I am posting in the right place.
Summary HB I am interested in was showing IOI's eye contact, playful chat but I always felt she was being slightly guarded but I put that down to her being in her work place.
Anyway I asked her to meet for a coffee out of her work place (hoping it would be more relaxed than her workplace) she took my number (I know I should have got hers but I knew that wouldnt happen) but the next week she told me she was very shy and unsure as she gets lots of offers at work (remember I was going indirect to build comfort) she also appeared a little upset when telling me.
I now guess her being really shy was maybe worried about meeting outside the work place, maybe I didnt build up enough comfort but thought it might be better to move things along rather than let things stale out.
Thing is we still talk but its slightly cooler, I know if we can sit alone over a coffee etc I can build some comfort so she knows I am ok, I dont know whether to ask to meet her in her works cafe or is there anything else you guys recommend? it seems she was more comfortable with me before i asked her, I am 98% sure she is interested but I think her shyness is getting in the way. Any tips?