PLEASE I REALLY NEED HELP!! So there this girl i met in school. i thought she was cool and very cute. I knew she was attracted to me because she kept looking at me from across the room and moving her hair back and forth. One day we were at lunch, and she had headphones. I used that to start a conversation. I called her over and she came immediately lol like a little dog when you call it. she let me borrow her headphones and started talking. I got her number. It seems that this girl has a problem with cocky funny. I texted her calling her a brat playing with her, and she got mad and tarted saying things like. "Is this how you're trying to flirt with me" I took this as a test and disqualified her, telling her. "I like girls with a sense of humor. I think you're nice, you'd make a very nice friend." However, she hates me now. But i dont go like a wuss and try to impress her or make her like me. I just tease her and let her know that she takes shit too seriously. Now she has a boyfriend who is a big nice wuss. Idk for how long. What can i do do get this girl. if i text her something playful, she might tell me to fuck off like she did, and when i try to say something in person, she either ignores me or acts like a bitch. i just end up laughing. Any advice? please don't say to move on. i like challenges

in my opinion what your saying is kind of contradicting to me, ussually when a girl tells you to f off and she has a boyfreind its beacuse shes happy and isnt going to budge no matter how cool or awesome you are, its not necessarily that your doing anything wrong but that shes just not open to other people beacuse she doesnt want to risk losing what she already has, sometimes there are those people youl never be able to get no matter what you do, besides if shes going to act bitchy in the first place then what happens if you do attract her then your stuck with a bitchy and more likely controlling girlfreind and youve wasted your time, when instead you can find someone cool and that you actually are genuinly intrested in and be happy, but where i see you messed up in my opinion is that you continued to tease her and she took it the wrong way, and she maybe took offense to the fact your pointing out a fault of hers by saying she takes things to serious, the best way i can see for you to recover would be an appology... sometimes we all have to man up and put down some pride, then be lighthearted and dont really tease her to much, theres some great material i can recommend to you thats really helped me in game and i got so much out of it, private message me if your intrested!

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to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

Stop trying to game her so much. You gotta know when to be serious as well. Meet her in person and approach. If she snubs you say, "Listen, I'm sorry I upset you. That was the last thing I wanted to do, and I hope we can still be friends."

Firstly, you have a completely off-compass, if not missing, sense of calibration. This girl clearly didn't take your C&F the right way the first time (which isn't a judgement on the technique, but on your ability to implement it), now instead of switching gears and changing strategy, which would've improved your odds, you keep on ploughing her with more and more of Cocky and Funny lines and routines.

Weren't you listening?
She "got mad", doesn't equate she was "testing" you. Learn to read a woman's moods more properly if you want to be more successful with them.

And now, she has got a boyfriend, who might look like a "big nice wuss" to you, but he had the common sense to give her what she needed. And you didn't.

Pick-Up is giving her what she needs, not what you need.

That's all the advice I can give you on this matter.

I don't condone breaking relationships, for personal gains. If she's single and available, you can try your chances again, with a revised strategy. However, leave her alone and game available women for the current time.

Good luck.

- Luke

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

i didn't read your post but I just wanted to reply :

you can't just forget about it and move on.!

Go ahead and gain experience. Failures lead you to success!

Next her.

No single specific girl is worth a forum post with a bunch of all-caps in it, lol.


w/e, there are millions of them, move on. Easily replaced.

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