So my problem is as follows: I feel that my lack of "Inner game" or whatever you want to call it is having a major effect on my life. It has nothing to do with women, dating anything like that, however I have some sort of bad luck streak that I need gone. I'll have a few good things happen, for instance find my dream car, then it will turn out to be a complete lemon costing easily double what I payed for the car, just to fix it. I'll finally be ticket free, then get a ticket. I'll get a good job where it's super easy and great SPAM but my boss has this awful desire to see me fired for the worst things. I'm almost certain it comes down to how I feel subconsciously about life and whatnot, but how can I change my own frame? I don't really believe in luck per-say but I definitely feel that some how the way that I feel subconsciously is leading me towards these situations, perhaps my body language is conveying weakness, or maybe how I talk conveys a lack of self confidence. I don't really feel any sort of negativity about myself, I'm pretty laid back but I feel it's a bit deeper than how I feel on my surface level consciousness if that makes sense. Any advice on how I can work on improving this would be great! Thanks guys!

love to help you with that, would like to start by asking you a question.

How, specifically, DO you feel about life, that is behind these problems?

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I'm slightly confused by the question. Do you mean how do I feel when these problems happen or how do I feel besides these problems? I'll answer both. I get pretty frustrated when it's not going my way in all honestly. I get kind of upset and start feeling like I can't get a break from all the stuff. In regular life when things aren't going bad I feel great. I have a great time with friends and family, fun hobbies and tons of interesting adventures in life. I feel like I could do more perhaps, get out and do more things I never did when I was younger like go to clubs and stuff but other than that I'm a generally happy person.

I meant specifically what you were referring to when you said:

I'm almost certain it comes down to how I feel subconsciously about life and whatnot, but how can I change my own frame?

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