i recently found a free online dating site i put in my info and wrote about myself and posted some pictures so i started messaging girls there were about 5 guys for every girl just like a night club and girls get hit on every second it took me half an hour to get anything back and some girls stoped talking to me right away after a month my results were about
75 girls messaged
35 wrote back
20 had a conversatian
8 gave me numbers
3 wanted to meet
2 sent me dirty pictures
and 0 girls messaged me first
and 0 virtual gifts u can send gifts like a heart or a rose
buts heres where it gets intresthing
i told my friend about it and said u should try he said no thanks i dont even like facebook but he said download my pics and see what happens but act like yourself
im a big guy i lost alot of weight but i still have alot to lose my friend is shorter but has a sixpack and muscular
so i put in my height my same status and wrote the same things about me used the same lines and said the same things
and here are the results after a week
about
30 girls messaged
20 wrote back
18 had conversatian
didnt ask for numbers this time cause i couldnt meet them
didnt ask to meet any of them
10 sent me dirty pictures
5 girs messaged me first
and i got 4 virtual gifts
ps u have to pay money to send gifts or see who viewed ur profile or to see who thinks ur hot and my fake profile was viewed 60 times it was an interesting experiment

How the hell do 3 girls want to meet you out of all the girls you messaged? You are doing something way wrong if you got 35 replies back and 20 conversations. Almost every girl I message and replies back I pretty much get her number and meet her. As far as looks goes when it comes to online game being more physically attractive no doubt helps, but its something one can over come if they are not that hot with a solid profile. As the second thing a girl sees is your about section with pictures being first.

I'd like to know how you're getting these results. Of the girls I message only about 30-40% message back and I've never been able to get a date with any of them...

Ohh forgot to mention there weren't alot of girls In my area from the site so I hit on girls from 1 mile away to 80 miles away some girls I just wanted to hit on for fun and see what happend I put the search for girls 18 to 23 who live 80 miles away when I used my friends profile I had a Like 3 girls wanted Me to drive over and after the reall me sent messages to most of the girls In my area I tried not to message the same girl twice sometime I did and they said I heard the line before or u sound familiar so that's something to take into acount but the main message more girls liked the fake me

I basically get the same reply rate as you, tho on my messages they are "short and sweet". I basically make my messages so that it gets girls to reply and want to chat with me. I also tell them lets meet for coffee (99% of the time that is where I will meet a girl I talked to online at as a first meeting). I also aim to get their number with usually 5 messages, tho no more than 10.

One I find it hard to believe there are not that many girls in your area. It says under your name that you live in north hollywood. There are a ton of people that live in that area. Now unless you don't live there I can't see the number of girls being an issue. Also you may want to increase the age range, unless your 18 or something. Another thing get more lines to use for pete's sake. I got like a list of 10 different stock openers to use for online game. How soon are you messaging these girls back? I generally wait at least 3 months before I message them again. That may seem long but most girls are getting at least 10+ messages a day so when you do the ,math they are less likely to remember you after 3 months.

But as I mention on looks, it plays a bigger part online than in real life where you should be gaming more anyway, especially if there are not that many girls in your area. Remember all girls have online really is a picture and a paragraph on you. Factor in the other online stuff, and looks no doubt help more online. But you can even the playing field some if not more. Yes you never going to be on a equal playing field, but if you know how to work the system you can increase your odds. The only online dating thing is really about marketing. The better you can market your self the better off you are.

to the actuall question yes and no. You can be the hottest guy in the world but the only game you got is walking up to random women and asking "DTF?". Or you can be a ugly guy who takes all the steps and makes every girl he sees laugh. There is no one thing like looks that guarantee every girl will want you. And yes you gotta work on your online game if those are your stats for girls (by the way why would you want girls that want you based only on looks?)

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Yes! looks make a huge difference. I'm not hot, but am lucky and kinda photogenic, I take decent pictures. With HB 7 and low 8's I don't not even need to take the time to write out messages. Just Use a catchy title, and "Hi". My profile is pretty good, and I just put up 1 pic a friend took, one webcam shot, one pic taken in front of a mirror, and one of me snowboarding.

This was from a few weeks ago:



Sorry, if this comes off like bragging. I was just trying to say, I have a lot easier time than my friends that are not photogenic.[/img]

Photogenic =/= being hot.

Cute works for me.

When it comes to the word cute and girls take it with a grain of salt, that is my opinion at least. Saying that you are cute could be her saying how nice you are to you looking cute. Its not my most favorite word when it comes to girls really.

Like I stated. Cute works for me.

Read my sig.

Good for you? I was just posting my opinion on the word cute. Obviously things worked out for you.
lol. Sorry not hating.

Haha you have to be careful when she uses the word cute. I usually tell girls they're "cute" if I don't think they're amazingly hot.
Also if she says you look cute that might be ok, but if she says your d!ck is cute then that's not usually a good reference; it depends on what the situation is (which i think is what jurupa might be saying).

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In short that is basically what I am saying or getting at. When it comes to the word cute the meaning behind it can be quite unlimited. As a girl can call you cute and mean it as in "cute puppy" way or she finds you more attractive, or she can mean it as "your soo nice". And this is why I hate the word cute when it comes to girls and game.