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not enough push and pull. you need to make a controlled push, play hard to get, be a bit of a jerk. keep her around your finger. you can be alpha, leader, confident etc but if you dont push or add a twist to the relationship it will get dull.

Either the relationship itself or sex becomes routine-like and boring. That's why. You need to spice things up once in a while. Take her out to do something really fun or even be little romantic. And also in bed. Diversity is very important!

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because women are genetically programmed to want multiple cocks.

the other posters said "spice it up, don't be routine".

but the thing is, the very nature of getting to know someone close creates routine.

"spicing it up" , "keeping diversity" , "being different" , "unpredictability" are just all ways of basically mimicking new cock. it's to trick her slut response into accepting you in place of the new cock she is actually craving.

lol

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There are two types of non-associative learning

1) habituation; a decrease in response amplitude or frequency as a consequence of repeated experience with a stimulus

2)sensitisation; an increase in response amplitude or frequency as a consequence of repeated experience with a stimulus.

It’s habituation think about when you get up and put some jeans on and put your wallet in your pocket and it feels uncomfortable. Later in the day you don’t even notice it’s there.

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

We started getting to know each other by texting everyday and now we still txt everyday and it's a habit in our relationship. In person or over the phone, everything is different, I'm wildly fun and I can tell she really loves being around me in person, what are your views on texting in relationships, guys?

The routine of texting everyday is getting boring but I feel like it'll ruin the relationship if I cut off texting and If I don't, we'll eventually get bored of texting and once again, it will ruin the relationship. What do you guys have to say about texting in relationships?

Relationships evolve and change over time, and a woman who is dating has different needs and expectations than she does when you first pick her up and take her to the bedroom.

You need to pay attention to where the relationship is at, and adapt to what her needs and expectations are as they change. Or you get left behind.

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If its a cornerstone of your relationship and its getting boring, cutting it out will cut something out of the relationship.... Instead, you want to spice it up, make it interesting again. Find ways to breathe new life into it, and let it grow and adapt with your relationship.

For example, you could start using Multimedia text messages instead of simple message texts.... Send funny or cute pictures from the internet, greeting cards, or portraits of you making appropriate or goofy faces... Or perhaps soundbytes. not necessarily with EVERY text, but enough that its something new to look forward to.

You can also send cute or teasing texts while you're together, get her laughing and feeling close to you. Text her under the table while you're at dinner, or when she goes to the bathroom.

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[/quote]the routine of texting everyday is getting boring but I feel like it'll ruin the relationship if I cut off texting and If I don't, we'll eventually get bored of texting and once again, it will ruin the relationship. What do you guys have to say about texting in relationships?[/quote]


You shouldnt be texting every day as a routine. Just because you used texting to get closer to her doesnt mean it should stay part of your relationship or that it cant change.

I used to text my girl a ton in the beginning, but after a while it just becomes another form of communication.

you control the frequency , not her.

If you keep texting her, she will keep texing back, she will not stop. so its up to you to stop.

With my girl I control the frequency. If i feel like its getting boring, i wont text back for a long time. this way you are subcommunicating "this is boring".

other times, il text back and forth right away, making jokes, creating sexual tension.

i find texting is great for creating sexual tension. i always tell my girl shes sexy and i wanna do nauthgy things to her thru text. its easier done thru text than over the phone for example. im not yet comfortable with phone sex but very adept at sexting.