Im pretty new to PUA and I believe this is my first post ever. Ive been reading and trying things out but now i need some advice.

I been going to this gym for over a year now and ever since theres been this girl that i kinda liked. I never talked to her until about a month ago when I ran into her at a groceries store after leaving the gym. We talked briefly and i told her id start going to this boot camp class again that she always takes. After that we flirted through the whole class (at least i think we did) and after the class we went to the same groceries store together and just talked for a bit. I number closed and thought all went really well based on several IOIs.

couple of days later we were texting about cooking and stuff and i basically asked her if shed cook for me and she gave me a "i would but the guy im seeing might not like it" reply. I asked if hes bigger than me in a joking manner and continued about something else.

Ever since that I kinda feel like shes avoiding me now and she gives me really short text replies and never asks me anything. I just get the feeling ive lost this one. Anyone got any tips or advice?

Well, I don't know why she would even play you like that in the beginning. She may have only given you her number because she's too nice not to. Who knows if she is even seeing a guy, but if she says she is then just back away and find another girl man.

Cheers

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I think you jusmped a little fast after a few days of not talking to her. You Went from flirting to make me dinner in a few days of not talking ot her... Does that seem like a big step.
What might be a better course is to try to get her off the phone or text to go out the bars or even a coooking class with you (since your talking about cooking).
This way she isn't alone with you and can feel comfortable. From that point on you treat it as regular game. Hope this helps and gives you some ideas.

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thanks for the replies. I agree that I may have jumped in too fast so she probably assumes I just want sex though i was hoping to get to know her. When number closing i said to her we should hang out and she replied "ya we should" then i told her she should text me her number so she just called it instead and then even joked about me giving her the rejection hotline.

Oh well. Im not stressing over her and ive decided not to pursue her so much anymore especially since we do go to the same gym and see each other inevitability.

Next time i talk to her i hope my new "i dont give care of the outcome" attitude will convey a better message. What do you guys think?