Glad to hear back from you =)

hmmm the last thing you wanna be doing in your relationship is lying... then it makes it no better than what shes been doing. Youre the one that wants an end to all these stupid games right? so I wouldnt be buying into them aswell if I were you...

Its good she texted you, it shows the freeze out you gave back to her worked. She didnt ask what you did so maybe just tell her you had fun, (and didnt sit around home worrying and thinking about if shes cheating or not, if thats what you did) =)
Show that you have fun and that you manage to get by fine without her so you dont seem so stalkerish/nagging/dependant like previously.

Its hard for me to relate because Ive never been in a relationship quite like this. Sure with girls ive slept with, but never a girlfriend.

make sure you just dont jump straight back to "so do you want to see me yet?" because that will take you back to square one again. Youre in a good position now if you can just play it cool from here. Let her come to you now.

Because remember you can walk away from this if you have to. You dont want this drama in youre life, if shes gonna try create it again. Youre better than that. You should have a strong stance here. Shes on the backfoot now and she can make it up to you

Goodluck

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Just be honest the next time. *Edit*

The OP has every right to be mad they don't see eachother all week then on the one day they're supposed to meet she flakes she didn't have an excuse for any of it switching up plans to go hang out with girls is not a good excuse and disrespectful to his time. I'd be highly suspicious of whats really going on.

The thing I would have done differently from the OP is went off on her ass that same night. She wouldn't dare flake again. this is one of those early relationship training scenerios, "Don't waste my time or kicked to the curb scenerio," sounds like she needs a lot of training.

Honestly you were a little too nice about it if you would have taken care of it that day you wouldn't have that second flake or that fumbled text conversation where she was able to kinda flip it around on you.

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They're both responsible for the drama

I just don't get the right feel from this that this is very relationship like...

When I had a girlfriend for a year I didnt have any need to come onto these sorts of sites for advice. you both need to be able to make it work together. Youre a team!

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I misread the timeline and missed the second cancelled appointment. I'm editing my post.

Well... we talked a bit through text... she seemed a little bit too serious, but hey, I got a smilley from her lol

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are you serious?

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Of course not, Mac lol

Just to say things went, well, not too bad, not too good. Just what I expected after getting into a fight

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i just think it's odd that you consider what happened a "fight" instead of seeing it as her just being "disrespect, dishonest, and dismissive".

different strokes for different folks.

did she apologize for pimping you out?

or are you going to move on like that shit didn't happen?

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I considered the "fight" what happened in that morning, me trying to get in touch with her and she sending me home and not wanting to do stuff with me.

She didn't apologise... But hey, I'd rather have her making it up for me later.
Anyway, I'm not the one initiating conversation ( at least for now) and if she wants to be with me next weekend, cool. If not, then fuck it, I'm not act like a stalker again.

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Your mentality is wrong. "if she wants to be with me next weekend", that shows you give her more value and are always 'waiting' for her.

Do this; wether she wants to meet or not, don't meet her, say you are busy. Don't ask her and reject if she asks.

P1nkstar, yours is a good idea I'd be willing to try. Problem is, it's been two weeks now since the last time we've been together, and if I do what you suggest, it's gonna look like we can't even stand to see each other.

My goal here is to get her out of hiding and into my sights and arms, not the other way around.

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Always wanting to meet her if she keeps rejecting you, comes of as needy...
Make her work for you, if she doesn't, she isn't intrested.

If she's really into you, she wouldn't mind waiting 3 weeks for seeing you...

She must be happy that you make time for her.

See it as a test, on how intrested she is in you, since she gave you some bad signs.

To be honest, Id almost try forget this girl til she makes the move to see you.

If she really wants to see you then she will make sure she does. I wouldnt even bother to talk to her again til she demands to see you like you were doing in the first fight. Thats when you truly know she actually wants to see you.

Until then, she doesnt.

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