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PostPosted: Wed Nov 30, 2011 12:55 am 
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So I was at this party and picked up this HB7 and everything was perfect until it was time for a kiss close. I knew what I had to do but I didn't kiss her. My brain was overthinking, about to explode, I thought I had a panic attack.. I have never felt something like this, maybe because I have never been kissed (I am 19). I mean wtf is it really so hard? I don't know what to do :(


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there is only one thing to do as you know, feel the fear and do it anyway. The worst thing that's going to happen is she is going to turn her head. Don't fuck up next time or you will make it a habit and stop trying to kiss chicks.

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there is only one thing to do as you know, feel the fear and do it anyway. The worst thing that's going to happen is she is going to turn her head. Don't fuck up next time or you will make it a habit and stop trying to kiss chicks.

good luck.


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It's funny, I have major approach anxiety but no kiss anxiety lol

When I get into a set and settle in then I'm ok.

Back to your problem though, you cannot just lunge in for the kiss. I think you are waiting for the right moment to pop up and then lunge at her. There's a few ways to determine if she's ready to kiss you but here's my favorite way :)

First make sure you have isolated her and you are away from your friends and her friends. When talking, don't say as much and just maintain strong seductive eye contact with her, she will feel the vibe too. Try to hold her hands while holding eye contact, then I like to put my hand on her lower back and pull her into me just a little bit too quick so she is slightly off balance. Shows your masculinity, if done right, she should laugh because she almost fell over.

Now your faces should be pretty close, still maintaining eye contact, look from her left eye to her right eye then down at her lips and repeat. SPend about 2 seconds moving from eye to eye then the mouth. Watch her and see if she is doing the same or that she goes really quiet. If she is doing the same, you can slowly go in for the kiss. Beleive me, if she didn't want to kiss you, you wouldn't have even got to this stage in the first place. I used to worry about my first kiss too but it came out so smoothly, and the girl thought I had kissed lots of girls because I was that good. She didn't believe me when I said she was my first lol

But yeah don't over think this man. You will feel the vibe aswell when you know she wants it. Hope this helps!


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You're worried because you're thinking of the worst case scenario. Just do it anyway, and even if the worse case scenario did happen, which I seriously, SERIOUSLY doubt it would have. You still would have gained from it and learnt a positive lesson. Help yourself out, and do it anyway.


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Okay, thank you all for the advice, I'll do my best


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