Hey, guys. I don’t usually write much here, because I’m never sure if some will get upset with me being a girl and all, but this one is far too good not to share...if I can say so myself

The setting: Da club Loud music, completely packed
The routine: you acquire you target, making sure that they haven’t noticed you looking around in the process. You get you mate and you go for a “walk around”, not looking at the target and fairly careless of everybody else. Just imagine the walk has another purpose – like getting to the bar or the toilets. When you are about 1-2m away from your target you need to lock their eyes and then don’t let go. In about a 2-3sec smile slightly, but keep moving through the crowd the whole time. It will take 5-10 sec to get to the target. Go shoulder to shoulder as if you just want to pass through. Still keeping eye contact the whole time, now your heads should be turned towards each other, torsos facing opposite directions. Let go of the eye contact and look forward, as if you don’t intend to stop (Here is your neg). Then stop, look at them again (might need to take a step back) and kiss them – you shouldn’t be leaning in, if you’ve done it correctly the target’s lips should be 10cm or so from yours.
Other factors: Like I said – I’m a girl... and I’m hot, but on the other hand, I like a challenge, so I only go for the hottest guys – the ones that every girl around is checking out. I also have a kid and I get that out in the open within the first 5 min of conversation, usually.
I came up with the routine only last weekend, so I’ve tested it only once, but it work very, very well. The guy I was going for was actually dancing (not close, though) with another girl at the time. I think we were making out for about 10-15min before we talked at all Then in about another half an hour of mainly making out, I said I was going home, exchanged numbers etc. of course. Lets say it work so well that the guy keeps messaging me, facebooking me, liking my pics, asking to meet up again...and he looks like one of those guys that are likely to ignore you for a few day, rather than text you several times a day...so he’s totally hooked.

There you go , enjoy and if you try it, let me know how it went

hehe, that's nice!
..but I'm currious cause I just imagine picking up guys is so much easier for you girls. For example I was at a pub in London, sunday 4 o'clock. I sat at a table with 4 friends including a girl I'd sleept with. To entertain myself I looked around the pub for beautiful girls. There were none but one not so atractive girl, so I decided to look at her. She eventually noticed me and we looked at eachother every now and then. Later she got ready to leave. "Now what do I look at I thought", and noticed a hand on my shoulder. I looked up and her face was already inches away from mine and we kissed. She asked when will I see you again. I said "probably never" since I was going to Spain the day after(and she wasn't my type) we kissed again and she left. The best thing was my friends who looked so dumbstruck!!

Anyway, I doubt ..(that's just me) that the other way round would work. If I did what she did I'd get a slap out of it. I just think girls have to do a LOT less "warming up" before getting physical.

Yeah, I think you have a higher chance to get slapped as I guy...but I think that if you notice a girl staring at you/flirting at a distance for a while and then you go and just kiss her, there's a good change that she won't mind and like you even more for being quite different to all the other guys. It totally breaks the ice, there is no way she'll put you in the "friends zone"...I don't really see the down side...and if somehow you got it wrong and she was staring at the guy behind you lol, at most you'll get a slap - big deal.

Wait, so you walked up to a guy and kissed him?

I don't think you understand that there is a vast difference between gaming girls and gaming guys (as a girl). The whole point of 'gaming' is to make girls want you by going through different steps.

If closing was as simple as walking up and leaning in a bit, then there would be no point in opening or mid game. There would just be thousands of men walking around pulling into girls...


I really do appreciate the fact that you are trying to help us, but there are fundamental differences between the game which we need to employ and 'female game'.

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Hm, there is a difference, but its not as big as you seem to imagine, at least the other way round - I've tried "guy game" techniques on guys (with a few small changes here and there) and they work really well.

And btw, this routine does have a opening and mid game, they are just based on body language rather than words - which is much more useful in a night club...have you tried chatting to someone in a night club!

Opening: catch they eye, wait a couple of seconds and smile slightly.

Mid game: keep the eye contact, walk by them and break the eye contact for a sec (neg)

The vast majority of girls have no idea what to do if they see a guy they like - mostly they'll make an idiot out of themselves, probably confuse the guy and get no where. We are best at talking to the guys we are not so attracted to, because we can keep cool mind. Trust me I've been there. It takes a lot of practise to be able to get any guy you want and a lot of self control. I think, you as guys don't realise that most of us girl have no idea how to get what we want out of you. Once you know, yeah, it's pretty easy... but from what I've heard, its the same for guys - its all down to how well you can master your conversational and body language skills.

Firex - dont be affraid to contribute as a girl, keep it up.

Interesting to hear that women generally dont know what to do when a guy they like comes past... AND true that men and women are both more at ease with the opposite sex when they are not entirely into the person they are talking to.

Your missing the whole point the guys above make tho. A guy is standing still and a half decent girl walks past, she leans in and kisses him. Unless his missus is standing right there, or she has psycho eyes, she stands almost no chance of rejection (even if he has a gf, he has plausable deniability 'she kissed me!!!'). Of course we as men are conditioned to approach and rejection where women are not, thats the difference.

Equally we are not conditioned to being approached, which for a guy is generally a pleasure and not intrusive or something we are affraid of.

It's interesting to have a girl on the boards.

Sorry to be negative but stuff like this doesn't work for guys at all.

Let's say I try this. First off, I am not hot so when I lock eye contact with the girl, 95% of them are just going to look away immediately with no interest. I know this because I've tried to play the eye contact game hundreds of times. Even if they do lock eye contact, most won't maintain lock and will look away. Even if they don't look away, I will then lose the set by walking past them and not opening. Doing this makes me look like I'm afraid to open and socially incompetant because I was unable to actualize the small amount of desire I evoked in the girl. Walking past them isn't a neg. Hundreds of people walk past you while you are at a bar.

If you are a hot girl, you don't need to do anything. You can just stand there and guys will come up to you. Or if you have a particular target in mind and don't want to waste time, you can literally just go up and say "hi". What you've come up with is more fun though.

However, I will say this, your approach is good on the dance floor. Talking is impossible as you have said. So what I do is I make strong eye contact with a girl as I walk right up to her with a cocky swagger. I immediately lean in and talk right into her ear, "YOU are hot as hell" and pull back and smile. If she accepts, it's on. If not it's over and I gotta move on (and I usually feel like a total loser at this point, lol). I don't do this much because the failure rate is high but it is indeed better than trying to talk on the dance floor.

My friend has succeeded at immediate makeouts on the dance floor using the same technique. I had a makeout once within 5 seconds but she ran away right afterwards.

If you're a hot girl YOU DON'T NEED ANY GAME WHATSOEVER to pick up guys. Just go up them, touch them, smile whatever and they will (95% of time time- the other 5% are probably gay) be interested. For guys the game is 100% different. Guys are as easy as shit. Physical appearance is all you need to makeout/have sex with them. Negs, social proof- all that PUA stuff means absolutely nothing to us when we are out looking for an attractive woman.

On the other hand, for the most part, we won't get into a relationship with a crazy chick no matter how hot she is.