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| zuevaxcy23 | PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2011 12:37 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Nov 26, 2011 6:06 am Posts: 18 | | Is this the right thread? I'm offering background info and then some texts?
I "met" this white girl on my bus that I've seen for years (2007-Present) but never actually talked to until a month ago. I made a comment about her outfit as an opener (Was that good?) She invited me to join the school's environmental club (around 15 girls and two guys). There are only a few opportunities for me to see her, namely on the bus which is at most only once or twice a week and the meetings which are only twice a month. I've been to one meeting, and I think I made a bad impression by blowing her off and talking to only the guys. It's like a defense mechanism I use when I see a HB. There are a lot of details, and I've typed it up (the whole story is about one single spaced on Word), but I'm not sure which is the appropriate thread to put it in.
So the best way to contact her is through FB. I've talked to her a couple times, but it seems like a one sided conversation. It IS a one sided conversation. It's just Q&A, me asking about her pageant competitions and her answering. Also, she blows me off and ends the conversation abruptly because she is in "4 AP and 3 Pre-AP classes." (so she is "extremely busy") She also complains about procrastinating and lack of sleep because that's what she posts about on her statuses or I ask about it and I try "empathizing" with her by relating similar bad sleeping habits with her.
Also she get's so many "you're so pretty" comments on every single picture she posts and the same people like her statuses on facebook. So she knows she's hot. She's not part of the "party/drink/drugs" group. But she comes to school in glasses without any makeup, so she looks plain. ALL her friends are Asian and so is her mindset-getting straight A's no matter what even through cheating.
I'm always initiating the conversations on Facebook, what should I say on Facebook to maintain her attention, so she'll also reciprocate because I only talk to her every 3 or 4 days.
What thread do you suggest I look into about continuing to make a good impression on a girl that you rarely see (maybe once or twice a week for 15 minutes)
I'm Asian (Filipino)
Thanks
Sorry this is my 2nd post so it's a lot.
Where's an appropriate place to post the whole details?
Thanks
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| Crypto | PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2011 2:16 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Thu May 05, 2011 12:30 am Posts: 1012 Location: St. Augustine, FL | | FB is a good tool to keep in contact with people and DHV "sometimes" but too much FB makes you look like you dont have a a life! So only check it every couple of days at most.
I suggest you bust on her about being sleepy, dont kiss her ass about it, thats what everyone else is doing! Be different!!!
FB is not a good forum to use because good looking chicks are getting so much praise that they feel "Hotter" than they actually are! If they get a neg on there, they can just delete it so only the "you're so beautiful" comments remain.
With this girl, you need to make the most of the face to face opportunities you have! Work on that part of your game...She has soo many things you can talk to her about, then tease her about being so smart, being a little princess, if she does beauty contests, ask her if her talent is "Yodeling" make it funny (practice yodeling) then show her your skills "loudly and in public" it shows you are not shy nor really care what the people around you think and it will be funny. If this gets her laughing, that night post a funny yodeling video on your FB wall and then tag her in it. It will remind her of the fun time she had with you. Etc, etc... _________________ Crypto...
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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto
You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood
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