first off sorry if this is the wrong section still getting to grips with all the sections and info..

oK 2nd question of the day haha.. Guys ive got oneitis and it sucks balls royally...

Ill try and make this is as short as poss.. ok 10 years ago i got with a HB7 had some fun but being young and foolish it was very short lived, i was her first aswell if that makes any change on the verdict..

ok present day ive kept in touch with HB7 but now she is easily a HB9.. since ive been single over the last 5 months weve met up hung out cinema shopping etc, had a night together where we got drunk as a skunk playing dares etc i got a sweet massage haha but in return i had to get makeup put on me and dance to lady gaga of which she recorded and put on facebook haha shocking anyways weve slept together where she cuddled me but no kissing and no frutiness which was kinda cool...
HB9 then moved away but we have kept in touch via texts and SPAM, shes due back in town on the 10th dec of which ive made up a plan were we have a bet on and the looser pays for dinner in my eyes im getting a meal with her either way so its winner winner chicken dinner... but while she was here last time we chattered about her bf troubles and my gf troubles and ive even told her about the girls ive been getting to work with.. shes a cool chick so i want to be honest with her..
as the days move on im really getting big feelings for her im not sure if its the challenge or because i really like her.. anyways sorry going off on one here..

so yeah shes back on the 10th im picking her up early morning got 2 whole days planned at the min but what i need your help with is building attraction i really just want to go for the kiss but i dont want her to freak out.. im not to bothered about smashing her back doors in as im in it for the long haul

sorry if its not the best description guys its pretty hard to put it down in words, but any help you can offer will be greatly recieved

bro,

great post as i was having trouble with one-itis as well. you have allrdy f closed this girl.... she going in for a kiss shouldnt freak her out. but to build attraction u need to be playful and flirty/touchy (not to much) but enough to let her kno your not just another shopping buddy. to do this i play a lot of fun GAMES with the girls... 5 questions game... the robot... ect.

also to help w the kiss closing and eventually f closing again... see if she gives u at min 3 IOIS ( indicators of interest) while u2 are hanging out. if she does... boom you go for it. and u must GO FOR IT or itll never happen. if she rejects you play it off cool... dont be mad... rebuild more comfort... then go in for it again later...

eventually she will give in. she wants to say yes.... u just have to give her a good reason 2!

GL.
Duke

I recommend you not to count the IOIs she gives you that's just too... well. methodical. Pick-up is not like that. But yeah...you need to be flirty, and touchy. You basicly create attraction, by creating a vibe, and catching the moment. How do you know the moment is there? Well if you are thinking "Maybe this is the time for me to kiss her" you're probably already too late haha so don't think too much. Rely more on your instincts bro. And don't get too upset if it doesn't work out. Plenty of other girls you know. I assume you're still young(20-30 maybe?)

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Ok you've already got comfort and you've had attraction. She's not been flaking on you, so she's into you.
Your problem is kino escalation and creating a moment to kiss her.
You need to touch her a little more, be more flirty. Don't look where you touch her, it'll bring light to it and it'll make her social programming kick in and she'll back off.

If your touching her talk about stuff that's none sexual, and if your talking sexual don't touch her to begin with, doing both at the same time might freak her out.
Next you want to talk a little slower and add some pauses, you HAVE to do this while looking at her in the eyes. Triangular gaze her, look at her in the left eye then the right and finally the lips, then repeat. The pauses and triangular gaze will build sexual tension, you should if enough tension is built get her eyes to dilate (go big like a puppy dogs) you should have her hooked. Next smell her hair tell her you like her shampoo or something anything to get your face close to hers, if you can whisper in her ear do it ( for the love of god, do not say you want to kiss her, your alpha and you don't need permission). I would normally touch her chin and move her to my lips and then kiss, if you've done everything right this won't be a problem.

If your at your place you can use styles kiss close, the one about lions and biting each others necks, this is a nice escalation and works pretty good. Look it up.
I hope this helps you some.