Hey guys - I haven't posted here much in the past few months as I'm usually on the Nashville Lair but I find it so dead, it's hard to get the kind of answers I need.

I've had this problem in a few sets of mine, where in response to something I'll get a "You're missing out."

Example one:
Was doing well with a great hb the other night, she mentioned dancing so I grabbed her hands to pull her up. She said "let me get a few more drinks." I said "I only ask once." She said: "Well you would be missing out."

Later, I was against the wall and she was leaning into me... My anxiety got me here, I was rubbing her legs and she seemed real into me. Also, her friend was throwing up smiles and hand signs telling me great.

I did #-close her but I didn't know how to kiss close.


Example two:

Thought I #-closed some ugly girl at the bar. Turns out it was a fake number which I did not know until the next week when I saw her and her friend at the bar again. They came up to me when I was hitting on another girl and asked for my phone because they needed to "fix" something. Then told me she "accidentally" entered it wrong but she kept thinking about how interesting I was and wanted to give me her number.

I said "no" and she said "you're missing out." I said "whatever."



I've encountered this a bit, the entire "you're missing out." I'm guessing this is a test and shouldn't even be responded to and just ignored, what do you think?

dont worry u have done the right thing bro.some girls will want u to kiss their asses but dont buy it.leave where u see they r showing too much gradients at you...
but my advice in example 1, i donno if u said that "i only ask once" in a serious way but next time do it a little in a double meaning way.like u r joking but also showing u r able to do it for real,a little mystery to create in her mind.
if u dont want to do that and say something in serious, well say "u'll delay the dance for like maybe 15-20 mins cuz u just lost this round" as like u r punishing her for not accepting your invitation, then both of u get a drink and talk until u feel like getting up for dancing again.
u r not alone dont worry, i also cant help about acting a little hard at times. but thats a good sign i guess,cuz u r not another guy who would do anything for getting a to do something for them right?not kissing ass

for the example 2, i didnt get the wrong number thing.did she gave u a fake number or u gave her a wrong number?but in any case i would do the same thing too. cuz there's more fish in the sea and i'm not needy.

Dude, why would you even worry about them saying, "you're missing out". It doesn't even matter, it's completely in your head. Just forget they even said it, it doesn't mean anything, and it's not going to determine a thing except strong qualities in yourself, if you simply ignore it. I wouldn't even think about it and just pretend they said "OK" because that's about as the "you're missing out" statement says.

So bottom line, if you want her, go and get her regardless of if she said "you're missing out" If you don't want her, don't