I was wondering what's the proper way to act when your gf tries to make you jealous with stories about other men asking her out. She's not my gf, per se. I've been fucking her for about 2 months, and even though we said we weren't exclusive when we first started dating, it's pretty obvious that we are.

Here's what happened:

Last night we went to this trendy restaurant for drinks. My girl is a Personal Trainer, and is constantly getting hit on by men at the gym.

Her: You know, this guy I'm giving PT's keeps asking me out.
Me: Is he cute?
Her: He's not bad looking.
Me: Well... maybe you...
Her: Well what? I don't go out with my clients.
Me: You went out with me.
Her: You're the exception.
Me: Do you guys have a code of ethics that frowns upon this stuff?
Her: Yeah, an unwritten code of ethics.
Me: I think you should flirt with him a little so that he keeps buying lessons from you.
Her: Is that what you do, you flirt with your clients so that they hire you to defend them.
Me: Your business and my business are very different.
Her: Well, it's not my style. I want people to hire me because I'm a good trainer, not because I'm hot or flirting with them.

Conversation then took a turn in a different direction. We were joking throughout that exchange. I just reread it and it sounds kind of serious, but we were both laughing and teasing.

Do you think I acted properly? Not sure what's the proper way to act when your 'gf' tells you some guy is asking her out. Do you tease her and say she should go for it, or do you simply ignore it with a 'good for you'?

well from what you said, you could of not go for telling her to flirt with that guy but since u say u both teased and laughed after that, it doesnt look too serious.
some pua's tell you not to fall for those jealous traps but i tell you one true thing, i have seen girls leaving because she says "u were not being jealous when i was talking about those other boys hitting on me" why did i get this response?because girls are different in my opinion.
so i wont say be jealous or dont get effected by it. but stick your finger in it a little.try acting u r a little jealous and see what kind of response you get.and if it doesnt work out well then fake it and switch sides.

well done

the answer?

to "act" is to be AFC.

to just "be" unfazed is PUA.

the answer to your question is IN your question.

you said, how do i "act"?

don't "act"...that is waaaay AFC.

i understand, we've all gotta fake it till we make it,

but the point of this shit is to grow as a person to the point where you legitimately ARE not affected by her bullshit.

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I really am wondering the answer to this too. What is the initial response to this?

"Some guy asked me out today."

What do you say back to that?

i always go with encouragement.

"well, why didn't you accept? was he a nice guy?"

to which the answer is clearly "because i am with you."

which again, just highlights the preposterousness of her even mentioning it in the first place.

mission accomplished.

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