Well, she is my friend and cheated her boyfriend with me twice. We were a little drunk in that nights and we never talked about that. The problem is that I love her. I have the impression that her relationship with the guy is weak, because he's jealous, insecure and they don't spend much time together. I don't know what to do in this situation. Should I continue my attempts to seduce her, ignoring the guy and hoping that he mess everything up? When I'm with her, I have the feeling that she's attracted by me. After all I'm older than her (and than her boyfriend), more confident and mature. Please give me so advices.

Just disregard the boyfriend, game her as usual.

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I would never imagine that she had a boyfriend....she only told me on the last Monday. I was texting her about having a date and then she told me that she have a boyfriend, which don't like that I always text her and she can't be always with me. I answered that I didn't know and if the guy didn't exist for me in the past will not exist for now on. It was totally unexpected. I never had a clue about it. She doesn't talk about him, doesn't have photos with him on her cell phone, doesn't have photos with him on her facebook, doesn't call him when I'm with her, and I bet that I have more sms's from her on my cell phone than him. It seems a very dysfunctional relationship. On Monday I got the idea that they had a fight about my sms's. After she told me about her boyfriend, she texted me imploring me to not answer to any phone call from her boyfriend, because he's a little crazy. I said that I didn't know the guy and he doesn't have my number. She told me that he may have seen it on her cell phone. I said ok. He never called.
Yesterday, we were both together, having a coffee, talked about everything. We had a good time together without talking about the issue with her boyfriend. I think that I must keep the thing with her as before.
I only have one issue: Now, when I'm texting her to go out with me or spent some time together, I'm always afraid of her reaction because of her sms on Monday about the boyfriend.

She's probably looking to upgrade, that's why she hasn't mentioned him. Her bf is her problem. Just ask her what is the best way to keep in touch, or write to her while she's at work and there's no chance he'll see it.

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That's exactly what I thought. And try not to send her more sms till you contact her secretly. If she happens to have another fight with her BF, it wouldn't be nice if you're the cause. Keep away from her relationship, and game her as usual.

Good luck!

I have been on the other side of this one. I say.

Yes do not tell him or worry about him because that is her business. The relationship they have has laws that are not your business. At any rate this is not your issue. Your issue is with her. If you see, like that.

Then you only have to be concerned with what it is that she wants with you. Anything else slows your game down.

If you get cheated on you feel like shit. But I think we deserve that wake up call from time to time. As men we should look inside and find where we go wrong rather then focusing on external things when a situation like this arises.

Nothing is your fault like they say game her. She is yours because you earned her. Be proud of that fact.

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I don't know how to act when I'm with her. Should I give her a lot of attention and when it's possible hug her, or touch in her hands, praise her, etc, showing how much I like her or on the other side, should I show her that she's indifferent to me?
I'm gonna text her lesser than I do now, in order to see if she has the initiative to look for me. It's always me who gives the first step. She rarely have the initiative to text me first.

When she texted me about having a boyfriend she told me that I'm only a friend and probably she already knows that I love her. I'm afraid that I'm trapped in the friendzone. I must do something to get over it.

Telling you that you're only a friend is most likely a test to see whether you would give up or still pursue her and in still pursuing her slightly you keep the door open for her.

It seems like you've done a good job of demonstrating self worth and value to her and you should keep that up , women look for men that are confident which is what you demonstrated in the beginning which will lead her to choose you over him.

Boyfriend Destroyer Strategy
Author: Richard La Ruina

would be a good quick read for you

I'm in the same situation, I've been in love with this girl for awhile and I know she feels the same way, but me and her never act on it. So basically we've been friends that are in love lol, quite fucking stupid. But again, doesn't mean I can see other girls .

I'll read it

But do you think I must show interest in her when we're together or maybe show some indifference? I don't wanna play the fool who is always raising her ego.

show interest , build kino but don't seem needy she won't want to move on to another guy that's insecure / jealous

be confident that she wants you , be confident that you'll get her and work your game at your own pace

I think I must act like an alpha male with her.

LOL I found the facebook of her BF and I lol'ed. The kid is one year younger than her and three years younger than me. I don't know what I was worried about...I'm gonna continue my seduction game. I'll totally ignore the guy.

This is not why you should not worry about him but the several causes you mentioned before that suggested their relationship is crappy as hell.

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