Number closed a girl, and now she's playing a bit flakey. Wants my facebook. That would give her the opportunity to just know me through facebook, entertaining AND safe for her.

I'm thinking lines like:

- "Nope, I don't give my fb to strangers".
- "We should get to know each other first".

Ok, what i'm really considering is something like "yeah, but I don't only really add my close friends and such".

Problem with all these, is that she's going to be like 'What's he got to hide?'.



Ok, so maybe make it fun. Like 'Yup, but I'm not going to give it up that easy '.

Ok, so I ended up texting this chick 'Yup but I'm not going to give it up that easy'.

I'm thinking a better one would be 'Yup, but I don't want you to see all the unflattering pictures of myself'. I think it's good because it's 'absurd' and it's randomly interestingly honest. And confidence that I'd even be willing to say that.

Will try it if this situation arises again. Would work best on really hot girls, your nerdy casual girls I wouldn't mind so much adding.

Just give it to her. It's not a big deal, not like if she has your facebook all of a sudden you can't possibly game her anymore. Plus you can always delete her later.

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Ive always considered fb to be a DLV so when girls ask I just say I dont have it, few have found my profile and I just say 'ahh I dont like using it if you want to talk just call me instead'. Seems to help avoid getting stuck just chatting on fb chat and not actualy meeting up.

If it doesnt bother you though just let her add you, cant make that much of a difference surely!

I would just say I don't have one.

I'm not a fan of it and I think it rarely does men any favours in terms of impressing women.