When we first started seeing each other she always wrote words correctly, no shortcuts (you are ... see you later) and if she misspelled a word, she would send another txt with the word written correctly.

2 months have passed, and now it's "U r ... C u l8er" etc, and if she misspells a word, she doesn't give a fuck about it.

What's up with this?

that doens't 'necessarily' mean anything.

i started doing that too.

i go in modes.

sometimes i'm grammar nazi.

others i like to do txt-spk

no biggie

as long as she is responding and engaged, it's all good

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honestly would not be worrying about this

Every other topic in Relationship section is about your problems. I think it's the time to re-evaluate your relationship.

Anyway... I would get annoyed if my GF wrote txts like this. I would tell her to grow up. And did.

My bad... Only found 8 of your topics on first page.

hey, can you elaborate?

did you have a situation where you had to comment on texting 'etiquette' with a lady friend? share the details please.

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It's not my fault that this board is dead. I start threads as problems arise.

Anyway, it's not easy dating a former drug addict, with commitment issues, who used to be very sexually active when she was younger, was homeless, 3 abortions, has herpes and now is converted to religion, living with her parents... at 33 years of age. Cut me some slack, will you?

Just an update. I've been acting extremely alpha and aloof the past couple of days, like I wouldn't mind at all losing her. She's noticed. Truth is this skank would be doing me a favor if we stopped seeing each other. Can't figure out a way to tell her.

Today she used 'obliged' instead of 'obligated' (Don't feel obligated to come) and a couple of minutes later she sent a new txt with the word 'obligated'.

I tell you, you need to keep your woman in check, even with her grammar. If she's always been anal about grammar, and then starts getting sloppy, it's a sign that things are not going well.

When you get in a relationship, you tend to text more, which means you start getting lazy at texting and start taking shortcuts.

Girl I've been dating for past year (28yo) went from being grammar nazi to 14yo teen girl as far as texting goes. I guess it was in first few months.

I told her that I'm with her because of her maturity and that if I wanted some bimbo I would stick with girls my age. And you really get a "what the fuck have I done" feeling when you wake up and you see a text: (translated) "LUV YA, HoPe 2 C U L8r". Bitch please.

She bitched for an hour or so. No problems since.

LOL, that's funny shit!

she never bitched again about your critique of her though?

i find that (with most women i've encountered) once you critique them (or criticize them) on something, they NEVER-EVER let it go. ever.

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LOL this whole thread is a joke .. you cannot expect us to take this seriously...

maybe she's comfortable enough around you to make mistakes .. how about fucking that...

stop this fucking insecure analyzing and shit .. you are being ridicilious .. what is next ? conspiracy theories or on how she comes from a different planet ..

don't make me laugh lol

go buy some 12 DVD set of some retarded television series... Lost..stargate.. go enjoy something and stop worrying about this retarded shit .. god .. just re read your shit .. you sound like a 12 year old who needs to know what his mom thinks..

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@Mack 2.0 I think she has way too much stuff in her "NEVER LET IT GO" folder for her to remember that I called her on her texting etiquezte.

OP expects that his GF talks to him like a queen and in 10 different languages i guess

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Dude, wtf is your problem. I expect the bitch to write like an adult, not like a 14 year old... like mccare said. I don't mind using "u" instead of "you", but that's about it... unless she's trying to cram enough words to make it into one txt message instead of 2.

well how fucking important are text messages to you ? do they matter .. ? NO .. it doesn't fucking matter...how you act when someones around is much more important..

why are you putting huge value on some fucking text message... ?

if you don't like her because she's having bad grammer regarding text messages then dump her if that's such huge issue for you.. that sounds childish tho.

WHO CARES HOW SHE TEXT YOU .. YOU SHOULD ONLY BE CARING ON HOW SHE SUCKS YOUR DICK..

now what is your real issue here? .. is she being cold in text messages .. do you want her to sent you '' xx'' ?

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