I went to a strip club for the first time this past sunday. I got a strippers number and plan to see her tomorrow to put in some comfort time (mystery's 7 hour idea). i know that i'm going to be nervous when the time comes to pick her up and spend time with her tomorrow, and her being a stripper doesn't help. please, lets hear some advice, fun things to do, i want to get her into a playful mood and then hook up with her this weekend after thanksgiving. Basically, i want her thinking about me as much as I've been thinking about her by the next time we meet.

I know where you head is at, and I would probably be thinking the same thing. Since, I'm not in your headspace let me give you an objective opinion. You're "Basically, i want her thinking about me as much as I've been thinking about her by the next time we meet." comment worries me that you aren't going to be in the DHV mindset to continue with this girl.

I know how you feel believe me but remember the catstring theory. If the string is almost within reach the cat continues to chase, but when it's laid down in front of it, it turns its nose up and walks away. You're the string, don't lay down and be an AFC just to have her walk away. Remember, she's nothing special, you eat girls like this for breakfast, get your headspace right before you call her or see her.

Remember when you invite her out be out with friends and ask her to tag along. That way if she disses you don't loose any social value. If you've already created a time bridge great and take her out alone, if not follow the above.

Good Luck!

J SMOOTH

AAhhh, yes, don't let the tag of "stripper" get your head messed up. She's just any other girl when you're outside of the club.

hey good job man for pulling a stripper,hand clap, YEA BOY! most men wouldnt even dare to talk to one, but IF they did, they would get nervous as shit, let me see are you one of those guys? ahh to bad that suck hahaha if your not nervous then just be cool when you take her out

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Outside of her work she is a normal person, treat her as such.

As for your own anxeities just think that she is probably as anxious as you and that it will be your job to re-break the ice and get things comfortable and esculating when you guys meet again.

Have material memorized but use it as a filler for when you arent just being your normal, alpha self. When conversation trails off throw in a routine, this might lead to a convo after your routine.

I had a post, like "8 fun/fee/different dates", maybe you should check it out...i actually had 9 ideas in there for PUA style dates but only 1 was my idea. See if you can find it, i dont remeber were i posted it on this forum but its here somewhere.

Good luck, hope this helps

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