Yo guys so I've got pretty good game meeting girls at parties and many beautiful girls that I spend a lot of time with dancing/making out and talking for a few hours and seem generraly intereseted and comfortable with me. They even give me their number without me asking it. but everytime they don't seem to answer my texts or calls or want to meet again. Its starting to take a toll on me -especially with the most recent girl- after all it takes like 4-10 hours for her to get comfortable to f-close. guys got any advice?

you've mentioned comfort twice. I had to move away from making woman too comfortable before I f-closed them. There is something to be said for sexual tension, intrigue, and mystery. Don't let them know where you stand and know your fully interested until you have them in bed.

That˙s good.. But when you get a number, or when you number close.. You shouldn`t stop there. Girls go out to clubs and dance to have fun.. So if you do the game, number close and then nothing.. They lose interest. I think that`s the reason.

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There are no lesbians, just women who never met Sid.

SidTine hit the nail right on the head, in my opinion.
Girls I meet at parties are generally the ones that are out to get FUCKED. You can make out with them all you want and let 'em grind you til your dick falls off, but if you don't fuck them that night, say goodbye to any opportunity beyond that.

These girls are NOT dating material and often times do not want to find a steady boyfriend. If you just want to get laid, then your problem here is CLOSING. Always be CLOSING. I'll say it one more time: ALWAYS BE CLOSING.

Honestly, I don't like one night stands. Especially drunken ones. However, if you want that, then you can very easily accomplish your goal, but the mindset changes and you MUST always keep your goals in mind. CLOSE.[/quote]

So key is for events like parties to f-close the same night. They always seem like they really really like me but don't answer texts. I thought it took more time to f-close than one night (you know the 4-10 hours thing). Also another key is to realize that night really is my only chance- that these type of party girls will lose interest the next day- so I should not raise my hopes up. Seriously with this last girl I brought her up to my room she jumped in my bed and wrapped herself in my blanket. And she was like one of the hottest girls i've been with. But her friend saw her walk into my room and followed and I ened up sitting next to both of them keeping them entertained. Until my girl wanted to get out later to go back to party and dance. The thing was when we were dancing/grabbing each other before- it felt like it was on. The next time it wasn't the same. Eventually she came back to my room to get her heels. Then We made out- and trying to be a star but failing- I said hey you gotta go right She gave me this mad look an walked out. I thought it would be a good way to show disinterest in her- but doesn't look like it worked cause she was only interested in me that night. If I had the opportunity again I wouldn't have done that and tried to make a close. Man I'm pissed off- but I see myself progressing really quickly. It's still hard to get over her- probably cause she was gorgeous and I don't have that much free time to go meet girls

I take you are at college? If you can get her to your room then you must finish.

Try checking out Kezia's stuff on bitch shields. Her friend was there to do exactly what she did to stop you from F-closing.

Disarming the bitch shields is important. It sounds like you are on the right track though.