So its been a while since i've posted, and as you all are probably aware, i like to leave more than a simple 'hey, whats up'. I go out with a bang, so to speak. Heres my latest gold mine of information for you to use as you wish:
MANNERS. Mommy taught you them when you were a kid, but did you know it can actually be used to pick up women? Well, not in the same way mommy taught you, but it'll do the trick. Lets dive right in, shall we?
Its a widely accepted social norm that you should say "please" and "thank you" when requesting a favor. Nobody likes to be demanded from. Except for some reason demanding shit is just the alpha male thing to do and if you say "please" and "thank you" and "sorry" all the time, you'll just look like a straight up p*ssy. So i'm going to tell you the RIGHT way to use manners. Or rather, the way to use manners that gets you what you want, when you want.
Rule #1: Never say sorry unless its demanded of you. Have you ever seen one of those guys that just says sorry all the time? Bumps into someone on the subway and says "sorry". Is late to class and says "sorry". Someone knocks over their soda and they STILL say sorry. It just makes you look like a nervous wreck. So for safe measure, assume no one wants an apology unless they ask for it. And most likely when you get into an argument with your girlfriend or whatever, she's going to demand an apology before you kiss and make up. At this point its safe to give it to her.
The word 'sorry' is a social demonstration of defeat. It means admitting you've done something wrong. When someone asks for an apology and they get it, its a LOT less satisfying than if they didn't ask. Which means a lot less defeat on your end. It may seem childish, but social dominance isnt exactly a sophisticated science. It dates back to cave men and shit.
Rule #2: Avoid saying thank you. Showing you're grateful to a woman means putting value to whatever service she provided. Act like you're ignorant to the fact that she's ever done anything for you. Women often sense their "social importance" in regards to any guy. On an unconscious level they assume guys that ignore them and devalue their social importance must have a high social importance themselves. Guys do this too, by the way. So if you want to devalue her social importance, just DONT say thank you. You dont have to be rude, just dont be polite.
Rule #3: Make her make you say please. Think about the way a little kid gets something from his mother.
kid: "mom, buy me that power ranger toy"
mom: "can you say 'please'?"
kid: "pleeeeeeaaaaaasseeeee???"
mom: "oh, alright."
most of us have this conversation engrained in our psyche because it happened so often in our childhood. if you see it in real life, you're going to say the same exact thing without even knowing it. if you ask for manners and manners are presented to you, you're going to say yes to whatever follows. unless your parents didnt fall for this little charade.
Anyway, i'm not saying these methods work for any girl. Some girls will see you as immature or rude, or just plain a dick. But thats why i've added rule number 4!
Rule #4: SWITCH IT UP. See, personally i have my 3 cards i play one after another, and i make sure to switch it up about every 30 minutes or so to make it interesting. I switch between being an affectionate friendly guy and a manner-oblivious rude boy who just doesnt give a fuck, and then the intellectual flirty wit who likes a good banter. But if you're going to play the rude boy card, at least do it in a good mood. Girls like a dick when its excited but when its just pissed off and flaccid they're not that interested. Oh, and its super easy to overdo.
Oh and just because i'm feeling super nice, i'll throw in my favorite trick of all time. I learned this from an NLP training course and just sort of perfected it myself. Its a specific "embedded command" structure that hasn't let me down yet.
Here it is.
You want ________, dont you?
You want to ________, dont you?
You really like _______, dont you?
I usually start small with this one and work my way up. The beautiful thing about this embedded command is that it works WONDERS for escalation. The first time you say it, it can be something small and simple like "you want a drink, dont you?". Remember to say it as if it were a command, just add the "dont you" on the end. Then you can work your way up the ladder of attraction with bigger and bigger investments, like "you want to get away from this crowd, dont you?" or "you want to go someplace a little more comfortable, dont you?". Every time you say the embedded command and she says yes, that "yes" is engrained a little bit further into her subconscious. So if you say something in that format again, the chances of her saying yes are that much higher. As you escalate, you can make your tone even more sensual, even more flirty, even hint at some innuendo. And by the time you get her alone in your room, you can say downright dirty shit like "you want my hard cock filling up your tight pussy, dont you?" and have it send shivers down her spine as she murmurs "yes".
The absolute best part about this embedded command is that there is literally NO blame on you. I've made posts before about blame games and how key they are to female sexuality and dating in general, and damage control is one of the key issues you have to be aware of in pickup. If she says "yes" to an embedded command, all blame for the sexual tension is on her, which will only make her more attracted to you. if she says 'no', all blame is still on her because the question is about what she wants. and if she tries to push it back on you and say you're the one that wants it, all you have to do is play stupid and act like you were just asking her if thats what she wanted. and by playing stupid, you also thwart her plan to shift blame back onto you--which just makes her more attracted to you. There is literally nothing bad about this method.
CHAT
