It`s been an impossible situation with this girl all along, we didn`t get together for a long time and mostly bcs of me-when I could make it happen, i didn`t.. Anyways, things got really bad and to the point when she started to get all cold.. And i think that it`s bcs, among the other reasons, that she sees me as some player who hooks up with another girl on every party or every time i go out. But she wants a loyal tralala bf... So.. Is it a good idea that i reframe to her and tell her that I`m not like that at all? Or it would be even worse, bcs that would mean that I kind a "lied" to her or try to prove her smth back then when we started this..?

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You misunderstood me.. I`m really not like that. Sure I like to do it sometimes, but I prefer to have a long term relationship.. But I told her and showed her then that I`m like that, bcs of the DHV called preselection..

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I don't mean you're not like that.. but you're not chosing your words carefully.

And you're thinking in the straight line of pick up, while being a relationship doesn't require pick up anymore.

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Ooh.. Good post, tnx.. I`ll think about that.
But don`t get me wrong. With this girl, everything from the begining till now, was weird. Afc and pua shit all over. But luckily it stops at this girl.. I do only PUA at others, so maybe I shoudl consider leaving this one behind..

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