Okay, looks like my game and my wingman's suddenly skyrocketed. That's some pretty good news except for the fact that I basically got raped in the back of a truck by the driver's girlfriend. She's not ugly, but I felt pretty bad...she technically dumped him yesterday but she was all over me for the past 3 days feeling on e in front of him etc, and today I could have f-closed but felt bad. Although I just met the guy, he's really nice. Me and my friend Rob are like this kid's heroes because we stand up to his GF and her GF's cousin.

My friend pretty much is stealing one of his bestfriend's girlfriends and no we're not trying. We need some help because he knows this kid since he was like 12. If we're nice they'll like us, if we're dicks they just want us more. Believe me we've tried, our original intention was to use them to open some sets a lot easier and for social proof but this all backfired into them liking us themselves.

Ordinarily I wouldn't care about this, shit I'd be happy I'm improving. Except for the fact that the kid who's GF I kinda stole is super nice to me and helped me fix my car today and he drives us around and shit. We had "male bonding time" when we fixed my car but his GF is obsessed with me right now.

I hate doing this to you guys, makes me sound like a n00b which I still am I guess. Which is sad because I was expecting to get into PMZ soon, so this is gonna backtrack me since I'm not in the positive mindset nor giving good advice. But can any of you help me with this? We could potentially destroy our complete social circle, not to mention she mentioned Rob stealing some of my lines and being to much of an asshole and that he wasn't like me 3 years ago when we met that I was the only funny asshole kid in the group, etc.

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Yes, my name really is Ray Casanova

"With ignorance and arrogance, success is assured."

Oh and forgot to add a crucial point, I just found out the girl is one month pregnant.

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Yes, my name really is Ray Casanova

"With ignorance and arrogance, success is assured."

with ur baby or the last dudes?

this is a totally fucked up situation i would just say fuck it and sit her down and tell her u dont see you guys as anything more then just friends . . . . yea she will still want u but at least she will seriously know that u will never be anything more then just friends

I have the same question, and I'd hae the same response on the situation itself, unless the baby is yours.

I wonder though, how do you figure this will completely destroy your social circle? Do these two girls have THAT much influence? If so, they are the leaders of the social circle, when you should be. Hmmm. I would think that as long as you maintain your good relationship with the other guys, that your social circle would remain intact. And, make it clear to the guys that you DON'T want the girls.

His, not mine I didn't fclose.

And I guess you're right on the social circle thing, they shouldn't have that much influence but they know a lot of the girls we know and these girls are really big bitches.

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Yes, my name really is Ray Casanova

"With ignorance and arrogance, success is assured."

Well, first of all, great that it's not your baby. You don't need that right now.

Plus, if the girls are all the same way, big bitches . . . damn, looks like you need to build a different social circle, lol. Either that or learn to disarm all the bitch shields so that at least they aren't bitches to YOU.

This is sounding way more complicated than is has to be, lame drama.

Tell the girls you dont like em like that and to back off... end of story.

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How to get a girl to hate you...

Thats like counter to everything i have been doing for the last 2 months. Suddenly i feel like idk how to make a girl not like me when for the 23 years prior to the last 2 months i was pretty good at it.

Dude i agree with the above posters in saying that it sounds like pretty lame drama. If the guys are more important to you and your buddy then simply tell the girls thats it and break contact with them.

Hope things work out for you.

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Ray you have recieved some wonderful advice here, dude. Let the young ladies know, that it can't go down that way, and go find some more girls.

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i lust for jessica alba, but now since she is preggers. I am lusting for Nicole!!! It's New Year's Day. It was Ben Franklin who said, "Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man."

im glad i have never been in that position lol. you got a handful myfriend but getting a girl not to like you should be the easiest thing ever.

Yea, thanks guys.

I actually found out the perfect solution so I don't look like an asshole...but I'll get to that later. Here's an update on the situation, the girls haven't sen us for two days and they're currently obsessing, I got adds from them and I'm already in their Top 3 or 4 on their Myspace along with my buddy Rob. They kept calling Rob's house last night and asking us to go with them to Disney because they had two extra tickets and couldn't think of anyone better than us but I lied to them and told them I worked, last night "Der Man" (her ex-bf we gave him this nickname) was so depressed that he got drunk as hell as well as high and drove his truck around the city and called Rob's house and asked us for advice on what he should do about her ex-gf, the kid was distraught especially since the chick's preggo.

Meanwhile his ex-gf calls again so Rob leaves Der Man on hold and talks to the chick who likes me and he tells her whats up and she begs him not to tell me about her being preggo. Suddenly I got the greatest idea ever, so I don't look like an asshole. I got onto my friend Andrew's myspace account (big asshole, he made fun of this girl's mom walking out on her when she was 3 and made her cry) and I replied to one of her bulletins (where she mentioned she needed love advice and told her that I had talked with Der Man and that I was worried about him since he was drunk and crying about his kid so I called my ex-gf (since my car is down) and that she picked me up and that we were looking for Der Man all night.

This is perfect because Der Man was drunk so he can't say it's not true about him telling me his ex was preggo and it also make Rob not look bad for telling me this since it looks like Der Man did instead. It also makes it look like I might be getting back with my ex, since shes been calling me lately and her giving me a ride around town to look for this kid really helps the illusion since it was like 3 am when this all happened.

So wish me luck guys, and thanks for the advice.

P.S. Chick is crazy, she keeps calling *67 to see if I'm home so I had to post a bulletin saying I'm sick today (which is true) because I lied to them and told them I worked so I didn't have to go to Disney with them.

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Yes, my name really is Ray Casanova

"With ignorance and arrogance, success is assured."

wow guy, thats one hell of a ride. Like mentioned before, theres way too much drama then there needs to be. You scheming wont help it 'll just complicate things further.

It may be too late but I would have pulled the "mirrored girl move" & just put those girls in the friendzone. They wont like it, they will be more attracted to you...but by doing this its crystal clear as to what you want and dont want.
My personal fav that I like to use:
"Youre too much like a sister to me. Lets not ruin it."

Or
Seriously call her ass twice every hour till she gets annoyed of you. lol
go AFC! cant believe im saying this...just think what the extreme AFC would do.
good luck.


JUSTINcredible!
"keep it short and sweet. or bitter."

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The easier a girl is to get into bed, the harder it is to get her out of bed

I find getting drunk and introducing her to your mate works wonders

tell her how you are trying to be something that your not, and your trying to impress her.

I had a stalker for 2 years I had even moved 80 miles away and she talked to my brothers and friends on msn asking what I was up to. I tried everything I told her how ugly she was, how I hate her, and the stupid little slut went to all the girls I was dating and said stuff, and generally was a jealous cockblocking whore, and would not leave me alone, and one night I introduced her to mike, (who "desprately needed some pussy") and didn't care who it was, so they slept together that night (lasted 5 minutes). and she kinda left me alone after that.

It's basically just letting someone else be the alpha-male, You need someone to take this girl away from you, so you look up to them and try and impress them and they become the alpha-male. ITS THE ONLY WAY. makes you feel stupid like a loser but their attraction goes down. I did it a couple of times. Give them a one-sided battle.

There are drawbacks on this as you have to put up with the "whats wrong are you jealous?" crap. and ridicule from people who know them and you.
BUT, at least you are rid of her for life She will never try and come back to you either

That was some good advice, however I already tried letting my friends be more alpha than me and it didn't work. And no one I know except her ex would want her since we all know she's preggo.

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Yes, my name really is Ray Casanova

"With ignorance and arrogance, success is assured."

LOL, pregnant girls are great to fuck! You don't have to worry about getting them pregnant, cause they already are, AND most girls sex drive goes UP when they are pregnant. So . . . give them what they want! lol.