HB 8 says she's a virgin, and she wants to keep her virginity. how do i handle this situation?

Well, you can't force her to give it up. But, if you amp up the attraction enough, she may decide to. But, if you go that route, DON'T be the jerk that just pops her cherry and says cya.

Amping up the attraction and comfort levels is the way to do it, IF she is willing at all.

Did she say so in an IOD way? Or was it LMR type scenario.

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ya, this all depends on cercumstance. did she say this before you even introduced yourself or did she say this in bed with you?

she said it in bed. but at first i said i didnt believe her. now i think she's not joking.

go anal...!!!

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if she isn't a virgin or doesn't want to be a virgin...when you are mouth deep and making her moan, she will give you the go ahead.

if not, I would respect her wishes. There is a lot more emotion involved in a thing like that; I would leave it to a relationship for that to happen. Not a game.

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I'm with Locke and L.A. on this one, your gonna have to put some time and commitment into this, and to be honest I would say your going to be getting out of the game and into a relationship and I wouldn't advice being a dick and doing it just to get a piece. To be honest it may not be such a bad thing, I'm only in the game to meet the right girl and settle down for awhile, been playing around way too long now

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Fire

ROFL, funny.

In anycase i would agree with LA but say this, while guys for some reason find it to be a accomplishment to bed a virgin (i understand why), the few times i had i nthe past didnt go so great. My understanding is it generally isnt their best sexual experience, and can potentially sour their outlook on it.

Like LA said dont be the dude who takes it and leaves her. Remember to "Leave em better then you found them." So if your not willing to be "with" her in some capacity for a while then id said dont try.

Also you need to amp her up not only phyically but emotionally too. You need to earn her trust and make her feel like its her choice. Afterwards do not give her a reason to have buyers remorse.

Hope this helps.

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"Be the same, only better."

I think it depends on what your looking for. If you work game to just get laid, or if you really want to find a girl. I might have a little sympathy for her and move on, i didnt get into this to hurt anyone. There are much more easy fish out there, do you want to waste your time(or hone your skills) waiting on this girl?

seriously you can tell if she's lying. sh'es told you it for a reason, maybe an excuse, like LMR, She knows full well that it's going to scare you off it may even be a shit-test.

being a virgin, a lesbian, a catholic, married, or whatever, doesn't make a difference. If she wants to sleep with you, she will. the rest are just excuses in my book.

While some view this as not a good thing, it is nevertheless true. Some women are devoted to whatever their reason is for not having sex with you. But some aren't. With some women, no matter what you do, you WON'T be able to get them attracted to you enough to overcome their reason for not having sex with you.

For other women, it doesn't take much at all to pull their trigger and get their clothes off, and them on top of you, or you on top of them, which ever the case may be.

my expirience says :
1.) Push up the Comfort level to the top , she got to love you
2.) Say it's okay i don't need sex (dont talk about it much) , but touch/kiss her as often as you can at places like the ass,stomach,throat but not breasts or vagoo
3.)try 2.) without your shirt ... (find a reason why you don't wear a shirt )play the game someday she will be allow you to take of her shirt
4.)Kiss her all over, touch her , make her horny
5.)Profit

i would think again if i was u. are you sure that u want to be with her afterwards?

Gun ,
its not about be with her but to seduce her and getting first blood,first blood is always kind of hard because womens have their fantasy about perfect 1. time so you got to be the man she is trusting.
well there are for sure other ways like rape her, make her drunk, etc.
but thats not the way a non psycho person gonna choose
mayb someone in here knows a better one than me but love is not the topic i guess