hi guys,

two days ago HB9 added me on facebook, right after i excepted i went her this:

me: hi, do I know you?

later at night the following happened:

hb: hi


me: hi


hb: hw are u


me: am good
you?
.....


hb: cool


me: have we ever met?


hb: i dnt think so
why do u ask


me: i thought we did, since you added me in the morning and i was looking at the pictures and i could remember i met someone that looks like you


hb: i dnt think so


me: ok
anyway, I guess your name is *****


hb: yeah, and u *****


me: you can call Mixture as well


hb: ok i like that
so mixture were are u frm


me: Dubai, but I live in South Korea


hb: ok, dats cool
why


me: am in Dubai at the moment for a small visit, on Sunday I will be in Korea again
working there as an Engineer
what about you?


hb: ok
am frm u.s but in africa nw


me: what do you do there?


hb: i came for a visit


me: aha
so am expecting a visit to Korea one day


hb: i will love to
rite nw am looking for a job
u dere??


me:oops
something went wrong, i wasn't receiving anything from you


hb: ok


me: what kind of job you looking for?
so?
listen, i gtg to sleep now, need to wake up in 2 hours
let's talk later, chao


hb: ok

The next night:
hb: hi


me: hi


hb: hw are u mixture


me: how are you today?


hb: am fine and u


me: not bad
a bit sad though


hb: why baby


me: cause me and the girl i like decided today that we can't be together
since am living in Korea and she lives in Dubai


hb: who are u talking abt


me: a girl i met last weekend
we have been going out almost everyday since


hb: wow


me: and we like each other, but we both know it won't work


hb: u inlove with her


me: not yet
but we like each other


hb: ok
really
am jelous


me: she told me if i was still in Dubai she is willing to be in a relation with me


hb: ok
why not invite her over


me: i've been in a long distance relation twice and both didn't work well
i wish i could


hb: ok
sorry abt that


me: you don't have to be
let's talk positive now


hb: ok


me: positive side, am glad i met her
what about you? are you in a relation?


hb: no


me: didn't find the right person?


hb: maybe


me: flings?


hb: not really looking for a real man


me: better for you


hb: do u fling


me: i won't lie, i do go through flings


hb: ok


me: but if I found the one I really like, I stop


hb: ok
so what do u really want frm me


me: I never cheated when I was in a serious relation


hb: do u want me to be ur girl


me: that's what I need to ask you, since you added me


hb: ok
i really do like u


me: how can we if we live in 2 different parts of the world?


hb: distance does nt matter mixture


me: and even if we live in the same city, is your personality what I really like?


hb: ok
u dnt like me rite


me: i don't dislike, I just don't know you


hb: ok
we will get to knw each other more


me: question


hb: what question


me: why did you say that you like me? what did i do for you to like me?


hb: i mean i just like ur profile and ur pic really


me: do you know my personality?


hb: no i dnt


me: don't get me wrong, I thank you for liking my profile and pictures


hb: ok
but are u really a nice guy


me: i can tell you that I am a nice guy, but it's not good enough, you will have to experience it in person to know that


hb: ok i understand


me: don't get me wrong, you seem like an interesting person


hb: thanks


me: and i would like to know you in person


hb: so wht do u do in korea


me: am working there


hb: ok


me: as an engineer
you got SPAM?


hb: not yet


me: you seem busy


hb: no


me: oh your back
I will head to sleep, if you got SPAM, send me your account name later


hb: ok


me: you said something earlier
you said distance don't mater
how?


hb: we can always see each other someday
i have to go nw
bye


me: ok
we can continue talking about it later
good night


hb: good night


that's all for now, I will see tonight how it goes later today, just want to know your opinion.

peace,
Mixture

I dont understand u live in 2 different countries, it could be a guy for all u know. lol

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am originally from Dubai, but living in South Korea for work purpose. at the moment am in Dubai for a small holiday and will be back in Korea this coming Sunday.

I don't think it's a guy, she has a lot of pictures of her posted.

sounds dodge and seems like you're losing her... if its even a her

just had the thought that you shouldn't have mentioned her name first. or if you did say something like "so is that your real name?"
also maybe when yuo tell her your alias.
"my friends call me mixture, so you can call me (fb name) for now" with maybe or

Seems a bit boring tbh, she is definitely into you though but I can't see why from the conversation.

Normally I would say don't mention pas relationships but it seemed to work here? Strange

i don't think am losing her, she instantiated the conversation twice after the above chat log and am actually talking to her right now (which initiated the chat again). She kind of promised me to visit me in Korea, since she is not working right now.

i don't think it's a guy, but I want to get her on SPAM so I can be more sure about it.

one last bit, many of her friend list are complimenting her on her pictures, I still didn't leave a single comment on her profile

thanx for review anyway.

well I do have a lot of pictures of myself with different activities alone and with friends, this might be showing that my life is full with fun times? what do everyone think?

Yeah that's what I was saying, something is working but I wouldn't have thought it is the conversation.

Photo's are very important they say a lot about you. My photo's suck so perhaps that influences my conversations. I don't create the situations to take good photo's in but I have been working towards that while gaming. Whenever they happen naturally there is noone ever around with a camera so I have made friends with a hb who is keen to take up photography. And I made a deal if I 'teach her' she'll take soem photos of me.

With you not conforming and not commenting on her photo's etc is good. You're on the right track with that from my own experiences.

The important thing is it is clearly working so why change anything?

exactly, btw am gaming a number of HBs online as a practice, to know my style with them and to experiment things. I don't care much if I got out with them or not, if I did then that's an extra to me (I already went out with one after few days of gaming), but this one is having the best effect till now, if I things do go well and we end hooking up, at one point I will ask her what really made attracted to me online.

again thanx for the review,
Mixture