wasn't really sure where to post it so i chose the only topic with kino in it. so sorry if this is in the wrong place.

so anyways i've found that this anatomy class i'm taking right now gives me a lot of reasons to kino with random girls in class. overall everything has been pretty positively received as congruent to myself and the laboratory environment. keep in mind i'm a noob, so this is a big feat for me, haha.

one thing i'm not quite sure about is i guess proximal kino? for example, right now we're using cadavers and we all have to share to study the material for an upcoming exam, so a crowd can definitely gather. so i've basically been using every excuse to "accidentally" lean into a girl to look across and over the body, etc. now my thought process is that any kino is good for getting a girl used to your touch/warmth. but i'm not entirely sure how it's being received because i'm sitting there not flinching/reacting and neither is she.

so i guess i'm just looking for a general opinion or personal philosophy on this specific issue that can give me something to think about.

cheers,

-kamjah

You need a goal for the incidental kino. And that goal is a moment of physical mutual contact. Until it's mutual (hand holding, hand caressing, etc.) it doesn't mean much. Although if you're in her "personal space" and she doesn't move away its an IOI, it doesn't mean much in a sense of seduction.

Try to interact with her outside of class, personally I give very little attention to a girl during class and game her outside of class and it works out much better for me.

ok, that makes sense. so you're saying it's not really good or bad, but can be used as a stepping stone toward more fruitful kino?

Exactly, incidental kino like that is just fine as long as you have a goal and are not just doing it for ANY kind of contact.

The Gillz is right have a goal dude. Its ok if you have to dream a little before you go to class. Hmmm, I think there are two mindsets you have to look at the mindset where your in your head thinking about what you want from here.

You prob can think back words from here. Like the F close, then sexual keno, then prob a kiss, then prob basic keno, before that I assume a time bridge from a number close and some comfort building and attraction building all though out.

Where is your head at when you do this keno? Ask yourself that. My keno was less weird when I felt more confident.

Hmm, I would look into some internal game, I did. Its good for confidence.

You wont think twice about touching a girl on a shoulder or brushing her hair. After some time move in for hugs and tickles. I know it seems like a feat. Keep the faith bra.

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ok well im going to say stop i think it comes across needy in most cases. like you dont know how to approach them so you settle for acceidental contact.

try getting one of them walking to class quick chat maybe funny remark. then when in class your serious about what your learning. this shows that you have depth that you ca be funny and serious and that she is not the most important thing you deal with day to day

i would pick out your favorite and consintrate on her ive found it some what difficult to run game to multiple girls in the same class. not say its impossible, with the right shaping into "secret lovers" or "friends with benefits" it can be acheived but its risky

natural keno is not found in alot of class situation and i think dead people would be under that heading of no keno. the whole thing is the keno must come across natural. but the intent for the keno needs to be known to her. if you must keno in class i would set a basis before class of why u are kenoing. what i do is you talk to her about something you find funny or annoying about the class then when it happends in the class you can keno by poking her with a look like "see i told you" or arm around the small of the back with a mhmmm in her ear then smile or what ever but get a reason

ive had girls tell me about guys in there class that do similar thing. its mix reviews but most girl would say wierd or creepy like trying cop a feel. but keep it up school is the hot spot and there so many dont even think about rejection because there so many good lucky

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thanks for the replies guys, i was a long time lurker just reading shit here and there as i slowly (ok really slowly, lol) moved along in trying to bust out of my shell. in recent months my interactions with females is improving and it's making me even more eager to take it to the next step as fast as possible.
i have been digesting a lot of inner game stuff recently, and it's definitely helped improve my confidence a shit ton. so i'm always looking for recommendations on material/articles others found eye opening or useful in their journey.

so if you or anyone else has any solid recommendations, lay em on me!

I strongly suggest reading up on Sixty's method. It's just fantastic and gave me a confidence boost beyond what any other piece of reading material has. It's also a simple but extremely effective method

Playing the game surrounded by corpses. Now that's passion!

Make the kino look natural. Women are always paying attention to male's moves. You wouldn't believe how notorious it is when you kino by accident. If you wanna make it right, try to get in there under the radar.
I would strongly suggest you to win that kino. Just open the girl, then neg her a little, play with time constrains, pay attention to IOI's and then escalate with subtle kino.

Under the radar good point Sinathos

Getting her attention without her noticing your getting her attention.

When you start you do not think like this. I am at a turning point in my life right now. I think starting to keno even if it is fast and awackward can be the first steps.

Just touch her your hand will not melt off, you know!

The next step would be to touch her more softly. Touch her without looking at your hand. And then to touch her and create that tension without anyone paying attention.

Its like dribbling a Basketball.

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i like it guys. lotta good tidbits of info for me to think about.

i especially like the whole basketball dribbling analogy. this is really the mindset that put me on a path of taking more risk and leaning into my fears a bit more in social settings. i've begun treating pickup as me learning a sport or activity that i never bothered to take part in very much or get good at. now that i'm actively putting time and effort toward improving this skillset it has really made victories (both large and small) that much sweeter, and the failures a bit easier to deal with and use as productive feedback.