so ive been reading material so far for the past 2 years now. and implement it in every social interaction. BUT here is my goal

when i go out to the club or a bar, how do i avoid being like the rest of the AFC there. how do i become the person everyone comes up to? you kow like the guy you see at every nightclub, always getting invites to parties etc etc?

I believe this is another aspect of LIFE. Game will help you get girls.. But what about a social life? i know Game material works on some of it, but i want something more than just getting laid. i wanna meet ppl, be invited to parties etce etc.

Use your PUA skills and your ability to make friends and influence people to be social. Also, actually not just approaching women but befriending guys and mixed sets will help with this. Not to mention getting to be friends with the staff at the night clubs is going to aid in that a lot. It'll work to get you invited to parties, give you new friends, and give you MASSIVE social proof.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

ok so... if i want to make friends wit the staff how would i go about that? like i know door people/ bouncers/ bartenders know ppl come up to them ALL the time tryn to be friends but they often just talk back to be nice but dont mean it. how would i go about making them genuinley friends?

Fake being genuine till you make it.

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Don't forget the ones, that helped make me, the man I like becoming!

Highly recommend you read "How to win Friends and Influence People." It's not all that hard but there are some genuine principles to follow.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Allright man!

You know, dont fake being genuine... How can you even do that? That is what we call a paradox.

Instead talk to people, introduce yourself. Try paying attention to others, there is nothing everybody loves more than someone who is interested in what they have to say. They will remember you if you stand out and are open. And how can you be more open? You need to drop all those fears and do what you would like to do if you were James Bond. Nobody is gonna give you permission to do stuff the way you dream of doing them, only you. So let the inhibitions go and become that person you secretly dream of being!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn