so theres this really hot girl on facebook named saphire and i wanna approach her. does andyone know any good approaches for facebook?

Find a mutual friend you both know, then ask her how she knows him/her.

Honestly, i dont usually start with trying to make a convo. A make some sarcastic funny comments on a couple pics. If i see she replies or likes, then i go into a chat or message.
I have opened successfully just by using this: "just letting you know i like coffe!" , or "pick a number from 1 to 16 except for 6 ... thank you... you just picked my lunch... i was undecided!" , and i have opened extremely successfully with this:
ME- Red or black?!
SHE- what?
ME- Red or black... its an easy question... just answer!
SHE- depends on what you are talking about
ME- oh gosh, let me make an easier question then: Hot or cold? ... JUST PICK ONE
SHE- Hot
ME- odd or even?
SHE- odd
ME- i thought soo... Radio or TV?!
SHE- TV
ME- WRONG... nice meeting you Miss Hot/Odd/TV, but there is a conflict on our personality! >:-/
SHE- lol ... ohhh nooo ... let me try again!
ME- Last chance... Coffee or milkshake?
SHE- Milkshake
ME- uhmmm... i can deal with that...
SHE- Yeahhhh
ME- Today or tomorrow?
SHE- lol ... today
ME- You pick the place or i pick the place?
SHE- lol ... you pick the place
ME- 8PM by the soccer field
SHE- Make it 8.30 ... see you there ... you are too funny!

Take note that i dont do this unless i got some sort of REPLIES (PLURAL) from her on a picture comment or status or something. Also, make sure she knows who you are, that at least she as seen you on campus and you had at least smiled at her and got a positive response. Dont be suicidal and open like this to a completely random girl!

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Thats awesome, definitely trying that one out!

dont approach if u dont know her or have common friends unless u dont give a fuck

brian what the fuck do you say when they tell you purple?

Ahahahahah... You got me cracking up!!!
It doesn't matter what she says, neither what the question is, it just matter that you get in a talkative mood, and honestly, the most random the best... But if I ask "black or white" and she says purple, I will probably say "colorblind or just being funny?"
There was this girl that went:
SHE- is this a game?
ME - No, its a test!
SHE - I dont play tests
ME - awesome, you just passed it!
SHE - Please dude, I dont play games
ME - there are only 2 kinds of ppl who dont play games: those with no game, and those who are afraid to lose! Im gonna play with someone else... You are not fun :p
SHE - good luck

Two days later I see her walking to the cafeteria. I go after her and I stand right next to her. She didnt see me. She asks for a chicken beast sandwich and the cook goes: "grilled or crispy?" And I go "she doesn't play those games!". She looks at me and laughs. I told her "so if I ask you ' black or red you dont answer, but if someone asks grilled or crispy you answer uh". She laughed, we made small talk, she grabbed her food and left.
Later on the day I see her online and I go "lets try this again... Grilled or crispy?". We talked online for about 20m and made plans to meet up for lunch the following day.

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Btw, my new "chat line" and txt message is as simple as "*knock *knock" ! When they answer "who is there I say "is Santa Claus!". Most of the times they automatically start shooting a wish list, and I go "listen, im not santa claus ... Santa claus doesn't knock at the door duhhh... Youre so naive!". Then I start talking about believing in santa, and episodes of when I was a kid, and I tell them about how I figured that santa didn't exist, which goes like this:
I was about 5 years old. My parents send me to bed around 11 cause santa would come at midnight to drop the gifts under the tree. I wanted to see santa, so I pretended to fall asleep. I heard my parents going down the stairs to the basement, so I ran to the living room, grabbed the fucking christmas tree and pulled it all the way to my bedroom! Christmas lights hanging on the floor, decorations all over the place ... I didnt care... I wanted to see santa! I go back to bed, pretend that im sleeping with a 5 feet pine tree next to the bed. Couple minutes later I hear my mom screaming for my name running to my room! As I pretend im sleeping like a stone she is screaming "what did you do!!! You are not getting any presents... Bla bla bla!" And im yelling "shut up cause if santa hears noise he wont come down" ... My father is just cracking up as I keep telling my mom to shut up and my master plan to lock santa in my room and steal all his presents ... And my mom just keeps yelling he wont come period. GUESS WHAT ... SHE WAS FUCKING RIGHT AND I DIDNT TALK TO THEM FOR THE WHOLE DAY CAUSE IT WAS HER FAULT CAUSE SHE MADE TOO MUCH NOISE!
But guys, dont worry, I got all my presents (that was the only way I would talk to my mom again), and my whole family got a hell of a laugh on christmas day!

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I think whether or not you know the girl or she knows you by any mutual friends is irrelevant.

The number of 100% random girls who I have added on facebook(who I have some mutual friends with but never seen or met them(or the mutual friends :p)), is incredibly high

For me it's often a hit or miss depending on if I can hit on the right vibe or not. (I suck at maintaining my state from day to day haha)

You just basically have to make them laugh, or just do something that makes you not seem creep, or attention seeking.

For facebook opens, be funny, random, relaxed(this can be seen in how you're talking), but speak with an energy.

Do not jump through her hoops. If she ask you why you messaged her, or why you're talking to her. Respond in a spontaneous way, funny way, that doesn't offend her. My advice is sort of vague, because i'm no pro at it, but this is just what my experience has been on the success I have had.

On the success I've had, once I get the girl in my funny and random vibe, I can usually drive it towards sex talk, her wanting to fuck, her wanting to hang out, her wanting to smoke, etc, what ever. Just make sure you throw a bit of game in there, subtle DHV's. Try to express personality DHVs in every response; funniness, confidence, non-reactance, etc.

Btw, on facebook, always say less than necessarily. Do not type excessively long responses. Keep them to concise and short sentences. If you seem you are putting too much effort, and wanting her to reply too badly, this will show. Don't send paragraph responses, or ones that look like paragraphs. Law of Power #4) Always say less than necessary. If for some reason she doesn't respond in 5-10 minutes, engage in the random/funny responses, but link it to her ignoring you in a SUBTLE way. Don't point out she's ignoring you, but subtle imply you wont stand for it in a funny cocky way(I don't have an example of this, sorry, it just comes to me depending on the context of the conversation). - If she ignores you, then make sure whatever you reply back with is funy, cocky, calling her out SUBTLY, AND relates somehow to your previous message exchanges.

I once opened a girl with talk about Purple Elephants and Flying Tigers. It continued from there, bridged into her talking about favorite colors, etc etc. Lead to her talking about sex, then eventually how she wanted to get me in her sex dungeon. Lol .

I figure the main theme in facebook pick-ups is that they have to have very little logic behind them. Focus most on the personality and vibe that you are giving off. Remember, facebook isn't like a club. Girls go to clubs to socialize etc. Facebook is it's own field, and when you understand it, it becomes very easy. People go on facebook to socialize with friends and spend their free time and or waste time, them typing to you doesn't take them away from their friends conversations. Really a lot of people on facebook are there for no reason and if you can be entertaining without making a complete fool of yourself then you can grab any girls attention. So you can pretty much talk about ANYTHING, as long as you manage to open her in an effective way that gets her into your VIBE.

Brian I had bookmarked this page some serious time ago... Then there's this girl on facebook I never met but I just added her and liked few of her photos and tried to talk and nothing happened, than back a week ago she opened me up with some conversation which was good and I ended it,, Then I saw her online few days ago and just before that I was looking thru my "PUA" bookmarks and decided to go with this since I wasn't inspired to start a conversation on my own.

So it went like this...

Me: red or black?
Her: purple
Me: wrong answer
Her: ok
Her: black
Me: nothing, it's over now, you screwed up
Her:

I got surprised and caught off-guard

AWESOME! You will be surprised with the outcome of such random "openers". There was this girl that talked to a couple time on fb chat. Always random convos, always joking around. On a friday, around 9pm I see her online and I go:
me- what do you usually drink when you go out?
She - depends, usually malibu pineapple, you?
Me - malibu pineapple, uhmm ... Next time you go out order 2 and dont forget to let me know (on the rocks btw)

We ended up going for drinks that night

I had an even better episode with a chick I talked with for a couple days on fb. She hits me up on the chat saying she is at a bar by my house. She tells me it was good so I told her "order 2 drinks... Be there in 10min"
She- "I already have a drink"
Me- "order another one... If I get there and you don't hand me a drink, im leaving >: p

I get there, she is at a table with her friends, she tells me she doesn't have a drink for me and I say "its ok..."... AND I TAKE HER DRINK OFF HER HAND. As she looks at me I go "I told you I would leave if you didnt have a drink for me... Want it back?" ... She looks at me, smiles, I put her hand on my harm and we go to the bar! (isolation). We are at the bar and she goes "I feel like the man in this relationship, youre the one who should be paying me a drink!", and I said "I could get you a drink, but I dont want you to think im hitting on you or something"
Another thing I say is "I only pay drinks to girls who pay back with sexual favors, so you better get the next round or you owe me big time!" And I crack an exaggerated wink with a smile. Later on, I will tell her "its time for you to get me a drink or im gonna start charging interest!" (isolate again).
One day a random hb9 that I was making eye contact with came up to me at the bar and goes "are you gonna pay me a drink?" , and I said "you look like the kind of girl who can afford your own drinks, did your job or something?" ... She looked at me speechless and I go "I get you a drink, but you owe me! And just letting you know, I work for the IRS, so you better pay me back".
Another thing: everytime you get a drink, CHEER AND MAKE DEEP EYE CONTACT! If she doesn't make eye contact, you tell her "thats not how you cheer" and do it again!

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I just tried using that hot/cold, today/tomorrow approach and it seemed to work at first cause it made her laugh and got her thinking, but towards the end she didn't think i was serious.. and once i convinced her that i was, she agreed to hang out "tomorrow" but she immediately signed off once i said "you got it!" lol i feel like she got scared off..

Red or black worked a treat genius plan

here are some tips:
1-I have used anything from: radio/tv, odd/even, match/contrast, hot/cold, day/night, etc... IT DOESN'T MATTER, make a joke about it, besides, she doesn't know what youre refering to so put words in her mouth like, on the hot/cold you could be refering to the weather, foods, drinks. Black/white could be ethnicity, chocolate, etc.

2- you dont wanna come out as a weirdo so dont keep it for too. I have finished it like this:
Me- lets take this to a whole other level... 3 options now: rock/paper/scissors
She- scissors
Me- rock! I WIN ... Wanna try again?
She- lol ... Ok you go first
Me- if I was a gentleman I would insist you go first, but since im kind of an asshole ... ROCK!
She- paper... I win
Me- excuse me, I WIN! When in this world does a paper beat a rock?! Is it supposed to wrap around my rock and just break it in pieces, or turn it into powder? Trow a paper at my head and I trow a rock at yours and lets see who wins

From here, I get in a playing mood and I challenge them for a rock/paper/scissors competition and who looses pays coffee or icecream or something (you should kind of know what she likes from the previous random questions). Its also great to challenge for an eye staring competition. I talked about the techniques I use to kinoescalate and eye contact techniques on some other post.

3- if you have her fb contact, DO NOT ASK HER FOR HER PHONE NUMBER! Even if you are gonna meet up, set time and place on fb chat, no need for phone number. this will make her feel more confortable cause, and she will give you her number IF SHE WANTS TO, and if you play it well, she WILL!!! I met up with a girl for drinks, and at the end of the night she goes "are you gonna give me your number?"... I said "I dont usually give my number to a girl I have only chilled once, there are some creepy crazy stalkers out there... But I like you, youre cool, we should hang out again " ... The smile on her face said everything. You can just simply say "my mom always told me not to give my number to strangers, but im gonna make an exception. Dont let me down or my mom will put me on timeout!"

4- I love to be sarcastic, but make sure they know you are being sarcastic. Being sarcastic alows you get away with anything you tell her cause if you come out as kind of an asshole or something, you can pull the "im being sarcastic card". I actually tell girls "my friends say they love my humorous sarcasm... im not sarcastic, im actually a big arrogant asshole, I just dont tell them so they dont feel bad when I tell them they are retarded " ... This line always saves my ass cause now I can be an ass, she will think im being sarcastic.

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