Okay full story...I was at a party last sat night and saw this pretty girl talking to another Guy. She was way out of this guys league so I waited till he left to approach her and started spitting some game. Turns out the Guy is a coworker. He stood there ackwardly while I was talking with her. Then he says he's leaving and asks if she wants to come, she declines and says she's gonna stay.

Couple hours later were still vibing and everyone's pretty much gone. I'm touching her hands and were close but she's rejecting any moves for a kiss. I get her # no problem. Kid comes back for some BS reason and tries to get her to leave again, again she declines. Were alone real close just talking. She's new to the city and I say I'm gonna show her around she's excited, and she gives me a couple of her beers.

Its like 5am now, the kids that live there are going to sleep so we bounce and I drive her home. On the drive were giving real well and when I drop her off she goes for a hug.

Yesturday I sent her a text with no response(I think she said her txt doesn't work bit I was drunk might've been another girl)

Well I look her up on Facebook and she has a boyfriend of like 4 years and she never mentioned him. So today I call and her phones off. I want to atleast talk to her and see what she says but don't know when to do it. Should I call later tn? I called at 6ish and was thinking call at like 8:45, or should I wait for the weekend?

Any advice is appreciated, thanks!

I think there are two ways to play this.

1. Either you let her go because she's been with her BF for four years

2. If you think there was an actual connection, like maybe is she on the verge of breaking up with that guy, for any reason it may be, you can attempt to reach her again in a couple of days, and act as if you didn't know she had a BF.

3. Ask yourself it is really is worth the trouble of maybe wasting your time attempting to contact her, knowing she has a BF and hasn't answered you previous text & call.

If she is moving to a new city and didn't mention her boyfriend of four years he doesn't matter she might be breaking up with him, she might be just trying to leave him for a little bit, or he might be leaving her, you don't know the situation so don't worry about it. If the phone call didn't ring then don't worry about how short the time before you try to call her again call her right away and get through then make things happen from there. If you guys were really vibing on that level don't worry about any time being wasted your giving an opportunity it's shot don't stop now man, good luck.

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