Greetings all fellow PUAs,

I've been following a few threads from guys asking what would make a good text opener. I have a few I use but I had to share one that (when used correctly) has gotten me more f*** closes than any other technique.

When I first shared it people were confused, it just doesn't seem very 'alpha'.
(Personally I'm beginning to question the whole obsession with the alpha thing but that’s a topic for another day).

Anyway, this text I use was given to me by a friend who also happens to be a ‘natural’. I’ll admit that when I first saw it read like something from a Mills & Boon novel. I was like; ‘dude! That shit will never work!’ I was in my cocky/alpha peak back then so anything that didn’t fit into that paradigm usually got rejected.
He went on to explain that the mind is the greatest erogenous zone, and especially so for women. So, if I want to get a girl turned on I should use language that appeals to her sexuality. If you talk like a bloke to a woman you’ll gross her out.

I immediately sent it out to a few girls on my phone. The response shocked me to the core. In fact one response in particular was so astonishing I still wonder whether I dreamed it all. This girl, ‘Majda’ an Estonian exchange student text back asking to come over to my place with her bondage kit. Although not really my thing, I’m always open to new experiences. She came over that night at 10pm and so ensued one of the nastiest, most passionate, mind-blowingly sexual experiences of my life. (and yes...she let me be the first guy ever to take her anally. What an accolade!)

Since then I’ve used it all the time and adapted it for email use too.

I highly recommend you guys check out some hypnotic writing to see how language can influence a woman. Google ‘Joe Vitale’ for some examples. Also, and I know it may not seem alpha, read a few romance novels. There’s a reason women read this stuff. Its chick porn. They get off the same way on romance novels the way us guys get off on Penthouse magazine.

As always can’t wait to hear your thoughts.

BTyler

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I don't like the idea of hypnotizing women. But putting that aside, what's the opener?

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Hey Olivier,

I just basically start off by telling her what I want to do to her but put into language that is more in tune with the female pysche.

I'm ready for some grief on this one buy here goes! ;

"I was just thinking of licking your ankles and then slowly working my way up until.........."

Almost every time she'll text / email back asking to know whats next, which basically sets you up with a ladder type conversation to escalate sexual attraction.

On the point about hypnosis, I dont mean "you are feeling very sleeeeepy" stage type hypnosis. Many people mis-understand what hypnosis really is.

When you're listening to an amazing piece of music, you are effectively hypnotized, when you are watching an enthralling movie, you are hypnotized, when you are staring at a mesmerising piece of art work, you are hypnotized.

Hypnosis doesn't mean getting a person to act against the own will, to me it means creating certain feelings in another person.

Sound cheesy to some but if this helps some guys out there I'll be more than happy

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Well... one side of me is screaming that this can never work.

Another side is whispering that I should really just try it out!

However, I think it can work only on girls who are already attracted to you, and with who you built good rapport the first time you met them.

Out of the girls who answered, how many answered in a positive way? And how many of them where girls that fit the profile of already being attracted to you?

hmmm...simple, yet interesting...

How well did you know any of the girls you sent this to? And what was the success rate of positive replies that could lead somewhere?

This doesn't work!

Some I knew, not well but were 'acquainted' with. Others were total strangers. I know this may not work for everyone but its worth a try.

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Hi Jacob, thats difficult to determine. Of course everything works better when you have rapport and attraction to begin with. I can honestly say this has worked with both strangers and girls I know fairly well.

try it man!

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i just texted this to someone, we'll see what happens haha

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Yeah, I can vouch for this. It isn´t so much about hypnotic language, more just describing and sharing a sexual fantasy. Love this shit!

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Seems too simple lol... I'm Trying it As we speak!

im trying this as well right now.... i feel it can def work.... but where do u go with it after she responds "until what?"

what are some secondary texts that are golden?

thx
Duke

I have just sent it now to some chic that im nearly there with, this better not fuck it up .lol

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Wow well that sucked , I've gone having a girl really into me and always replying now to never !!!!!
So not use this !!!!!

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Would this work on a girl that ur taking a break from??

I was seeing this girl who I really think could be that "one". Shes pretty stressed with her work at the moment and doesn't really know what she wants right now so i'm giving her some space. There is definite attraction and we get on so well.

But yeah just wondering if this would work in this situation, i havent text her in a couple days, this could be something spontanious and fun to send to her. Or it could push her over the edge?

What you think?