okay this was with a girl I met off okcupid. One of the few that turned out to be cuter than her pics. I won't go into the online chat, since it's frowned upon in here....

First I'll start out with what I wore. This outfit turned out PERFECT for me. She loved it, and I even got comments on it when we went out to eat (later on that).

Shirt:
Dan Marino Miami Dolphons throw back jersey:


Pants American Eagle Distressed Jeans:


Shoes: Nike Air Zoom 6's:


Accessories:






The first thing I did was to figure out a way to set her at ease upon first meeting. If you've ever been on an internet day 2, you remember the feeling? This was the first time she'd ever met up with a guy off PoF. I brought my laptop upstairs and gave the impression I had been working on a last minute assignment from work. Basically, I invited her in, offered her access to soda, beer, and booze in my fridge while I got ready... I heard a top of one of the Corona's crack while I was getting dressed and brushing my teeth... So I knew she was starting to feel pretty comfortable. (important: spent all morning cleaning too... a dirty place can give a girl the creeepers).


First stop was dinner (which she actually paid for). A light conversation along the way, it was about a 20minute drive.. I was really having trouble grasping if she was attracted because I had to keep my eyes on the road... When we were there.. some other AFC was trying to engage my date in conversation right in front of me! It was cool, I let him talk to her for a few minutes.... He was asking her about the football team from the college she went to.... Then HIS girl grabbed my jersey, and said, "I love Miami". At that time I was in total control of the conversation with BOTH women! Whenever they'd laugh, I'd neg them about cackling like witches! It was pretty cool.

Back on the road, about another 45 mins of driving we arrived at our destination. A sporting event, a local hockey team.. I was having a hard time keeping the conversation going the whole time. She was being a little shy, and I had to focus on driving in shitty weather.. But luckily there were no awkward pauses...


When we arrived at the game i kept negging her about something that happened a few nights ago. Being very playful of course..... During the game I kept trying to get a pic of her with my phone.. But she was able to dodge it every time! So I grabbed her hair... then said, "yeah... I'm sorry I didn't notice, you have a little gray going on here" (she's a few years older than me, so I decided to neg about her age).

About 2/3 of the way through the game she was being really playful.. so I escalated with some physical contact. Again, I tried to take a pic. She dodged it again, saying quit it, I look horrible". So I patted her on the head.... "it's okay I'm making you look pretty cool". Then she laughed, so I negged her about cackling like a witch again.

We walked out, I needed a smoke.... The ticket lady said I needed to ask before leaving the building.. I felt kinda DLV'd by this, but came back with, "I did, my mom said it was okay.". Both my date and the ticket lady cackled at that one.

Anywho... I'm drunk and getting tired of writing about this....

Long story short.....

Let her drive my ride back to my place, so I could focus on gaming her...

Arriving at my place, I invited her in for a few...

We talked for about 20 minutes...

Kiss closed HB 8.5 model from Cupid

Date set up for next weekend...

Will try and f-close her....

Interestingly unconventional!

Maybe the times are-a changin' afterall?!

Awesome job on Peacocking too!

RESETS.

Yeah. Kinda unconventional. I consider day2's from PoF/Cupid/Match in the field.

It really is. Besides opening a set, you really need to start from the beginning with attraction, all over again when in person. The plus is there is already some attraction, and lots more comfort. But, in person really goes back to square one.

i stopped reading after seeing the pictures

you dress like a high schooler...

Good thing I'm not gaming you.

thats hilarious.

What are "day 2's"? 2nd meet up date off a dating website? what was the first date?

I tried the online dating sites but having never met up w/ anyone, it feels weird to ask someone to meet. how long did you wait before asking?

From my understanding, a day 2 is the first date after the pickup: That is the exact definition I got when I first looked up day 2. Forgive me if my information was incorrect. (and please correct me).

I usually text with them about a week first. I'm not trying to brag, but I can pretty much tell when it's time to schedule a meet up. I just wait till I start to get some IOI's like:
- she texts me EVERYDAY and wants to talk for hours..
- She sends pics of her dressed up (or dressed all the way down )
- starts calling me "sweetie, honey, etc...
- Says, "good night". when I tell them I need to go.
- Asks how tall you are (this is huge! It indicates they want to meet in person).


Here's an example transcription (i know this is going off topic, but fell it will add to the value of the forums).

HB:I accidentally kicked a wall today and it hurt my ankle.
ME: Damn! I was gonna ask you out to a hockey game. But I think you'd just go out on the ice and accidently kick all the players teeth out!
HB: Haha! I can afford to get them dentures.
ME: (change the subject to dentures)
ME: (about 30 minutes later) Okay, back to the hockey game.... Do you think you'll be able to gimp down to some ice-side seats with the bunk leg (from kicking the wall).
HB: For sure.


That wasn't exact, but basically how that one went. And a good example of what to do.

So... 1.5 hour car ride with her (45 min each way) + she didn't want to take any pictures with you + a mere kiss == success?

Sounds like a horrible 'date' to me.

She hates pictures. Not my fault. If you look at the transcripts when I number closed h her, she says that specifically: successful-number-close-solid-high-8-mo ... highlight=


For what it's worth, after looking at your posts I'm not too impressed with your game much either. I'm sure you'd of banged her the minute she laid eyes on you, right?

A perfect date by a kiss?? you have the lowest expectations ever. a date is not successful unless you FC. I don't look for a new texting buddy.

lulz @ message board posts comment. It's soo cute when you get upset!

Haha! Your ignorance only proves you never even get dates. Or are fucking whores, as your PUA skills are not the best, from observing posts.

Sounded like you did well although I didn't here enough of pulling in or kino escalation. All i Heard was neg neg neg. Which she will eventually get tired of. This isn't a diss just some input. Kiss close is a success if I may say. Every girl isn't willing to fuck on the first night. cheers from miami