Thing is, there are so many techniques and ideological fantasticals
from PUA's in the community that its tough to choose which one
is right to study from. I first went from Mystery to Style, Style
to Ross Jefferies, RJ to David DeAngelo, from there I went
to Gambler then MeHow and finally to Adam Lyons which
is my final PUA I've began learning under now for
the past year. The best way to see the results
or even just proceed from where you are
to where you want to be is to choose
a PUA who's game is Direct or Indirect, you cant be
inbetween. You can mash it up, but you cant have
conflicting interests when in field. Decide on a
method you find more comfortable and
take it from there...

You can learn all you want but it's no use if you
don't go out there and try. Have you done any
approaches before with the techniques...?

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

ya every time i go out i open 3 or so sets but i seem to go straight into comfort ao i make alot of friends and increase my social circle but i never seem to build attraction so that is what i am trying to work on at the moment

How do you normally transition from the conversation after you've
built that initial comfort? If you don't create enough of a comfort
and you don't display any DHV's then you won't create that
attraction. Have you been looking out for any IOI's aswell?

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

I don't really remember what I do to be honest I just aproach as if I am talking to friends and use some dhv like the cube and a few others but I do not really remember in great detail. (I still have quite a bit to go through and practice, I am planning to do a lot in december so ya.

What kind of opener are you using at the moment? If you do
that cube to early in the interaction it may be interesting
but it's better if you build up that comfort first so that
those DHV's can work in your favour in order to
gain those spikes of interest. I'm going for a
full month in December just sarging and
improving myself in anyway I can for
next year. I'm guessing you don't
have any AA but I think you do
need more time to work on
your inner game.

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

ok cool thanks for the advice i will do that and then we can talk if i have any moe questions

Where abouts are you from Tyranis?

You seem to be at a particularly early stage in your game too, so if you're from CT i'd be happy to meet up in December after Rage.



Its probably best to try and memorize some openers, DHV stories etc. Try to plan ahead so that there isn't any part of an interaction which won't go down smoothly.

One thing to remember is that you aren't simply doing what you would have been doing before. You are re creating the way in which you act socially in most aspects. Simply going to a group and talking to them is a lot less scary than trying to phase shift, it is however an important part of the learning curve.

I'm not sure what others would say on this, but I would suggest practicing with some soft targets (ie lower ratings) to get your confidence up before moving on to the HBs. This doesn't mean bang lots of UGs... It simply means, work your way up to what you want from something more redily available at your level. Its all a process and you're going to need to bite the bullet if you want to progress further. If you think about it, potential embaressment is a small price to pay for a complete change in your entire life.

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"Its not lying, its flirting."

That's a good point but its kind of like a double edged sword. On
the one end if you go and practice on girls that aren't as attractive
you'll get that confidence afterwards because it was easier to
pull off, cause let's face it, the girls who aren't as pretty as
the HB prefer the extra attention. Then, on the other hand,
if you practice too long on lower rated girls you will be
too accustomed to dealing with those kind of interactions
and that will become your comfort zone, once that
happens it will or maybe even be difficult to
approach HB's because they have more
value.

When I first started out a couple months ago the first
girl I opened was a 9! I don't mean to be picky but I
have high standards haha Ever since then I've
been approaching milfs and 9's ever since too.

If you want to attract beautiful girls, open beautiful girls.

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

thanks for all the addvice guys i now have some kinda game plan so ya and nod i am from jhb but i will be down in cape town between the 25 november and the 4 december if you interested in meeting up

Lets make it happen guys:)
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"You create your own reality"

Lets make it happen guys:)
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"You create your own reality"

Thanks for all your replies guys! I'm looking for a wingman for next
year for JHB cause I want to start a bootcamp in 2012 and I want
to share my success with that person. If your in that region please share.
This is becoming a popular thread, let's keep it that way

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

I prefer indirect during the night and direct during the day. I am in Cape Town, I sarge almost everyday, anywhere I go I sarge. Since June this year, I have been getter at this everyday.

Why is the women in England and America different to pickup Chai? Whats the difference with our women?

The women in England have more class aswell as
more attention to style and the Americans are obnoxious and
loud. Our women are bit of blended in between I reckon
because although we're seen as a first world country
our girls still want to keep current and have that
same value as Europeans because they are
rich in that culture. The english are a funny
lot because their educated and more in touch
with what is going on around them so their
sharper to conversation. The American
girls are more gullible and curios to
others because they want everything.

Honestly, there are so many ways to go
about saying how this is different to that
and whatnot... but we're all kind of the
same, it's how your perceive the
rest of the world is what makes
everything so different and
unique

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

Hey I am in ct now and I'm staying at sea point. Does any one have good places to go for pua and does any one want to meet up and do some stuff? I leave on friday so there isn't much time but I would love to meet some like minded people so ya pm me and we will make a plan