Is it OK to invite yourself along to nights out etc?



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 09, 2011 5:47 pm 
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I rarely get invited out for normal nights out after the first time I'm invited by a group of people.

A girl I have met recently has the sort of social group I really enjoy being around. She invited me out once, and it was a really great night. Had good laughs with everyone and all that.

They have probably been out since, but I haven't been invited.

Is it OK just to say to her something like "Hey, when are you next going for a night out? I'd like to come if that's cool with you guys?"

I'm not interested in gaming this girl btw.


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Probably be better to say that you're going out somewhere and invite the group along. Less intrusive, makes you seem less needy.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2011 4:41 am 
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you can totally ask to hang out with people if you went out with them before!

i don't know how many times i've sat in at home wondering if i would seem 'needy' if i asked people to hang out, rather than just do it.

if you go out with them and they see you as a fun guy, life and soul, whos got his shit together, they are going to LOVE if you want to come with them. Don't feel that they have to ask you all the time, i've found girls are notoriously bad at inviting guys to things when the with there friends


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 27, 2011 12:18 am 
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Ask people to come out with you, don't wait around for people to ask you.

You're a cool guy and if they are too busy/don't want to, who cares? It's their loss.


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