Im sure you know a fair bit of online dating such as write good messages and such but the truth is women are more selective online. They literally have 100's of messages a week if not 1,000's depending on how hot they are.
They are looking for a guy as attractive or more attractive than them and looks matter more than anything else in the context of Online Dating. A completely different ball game to being in field.
To have success you will have to lower your standards. I have pulled some HB 8's bit it was so much effort that its not even worth it. The ones that are easy are usually crazy crazy women and I mean CRAZY! and the ones who aren't crazy takes at least 3 months of comfort building. It can be done but its hard work.
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Most of the responses I get when I bring up the idea of meeting up are "Idk" "i don't know if I should, idk you" or something along those lines. Maybe, I need to rob a bank then hire a plastic surgeon to just make me "natural-ish" good looking.
Its stupid isn't it. But at the end of they day its a scary experience for them. Just explain that you understand and build more raport just don't react negativly and say
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You know, I could be wrong, but I thought the entire point of social networks and dating sites was to socialize and date.
Please dont listen to this guy. I've had several girls off pof and I'm not good looking. Didn't take me months. Didn't end up mattering that I wasn't hotter than they are.
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