Recently me and my girlfriend have been arguing, but not a lot. I've tried surprising her over the last month and a bit before the argument started happening, we've had about 3 arguments since and two of them i said something stupid which i didn't mean and i apologised for it straight away because i say stupid things in a heated argument which i seriously don't mean but she won't let it go.

She has forgiven me in the past for things, i never tried to intentionally hurt her ever. I always try to make her happy but i know she keeps thinking about the past and things that i have done and it does seem that i keep hurting her way more then she hurts me. She said she don't know how much more she can take.

I seriously don't want to lose her because she is everything i want in a woman, i was thinking maybe we should take a break but she says she might lose all hope if we do that so now i'm not sure what to do. She says she wants to take it one day at a time and see how things go.

I was thinking about doing a surprise before she said the no hope statement, i was going to make her a candle lit dinner in her room while she was out and decorating her room. Should i do this surprise this week to try to rekindle the relationship or should i wait a while?

Any advice would be helpful. Thanks

You had 3 arguments, becuase you said something stupid, which you apoligised for... and she can't take it anymore???

How long has this relationship been going on... You don't seem like the guy that is hurting her.

We've been going out for about 14 months now.

Ok, i'm with my girlfriend a year. I've had so many arguments, i can't count them anymore...

She takes this shit from me... and she's a good a girl.

I don't know what you are doing wrong. I suspect (i don't know your situation completly) that it's not what she says it is, but that she is losing attraction for you and she's inventing it a reason/name for it.

Maybe you are too nice to her?

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