Basically I went out with my cousin, met 2 of her friends. # and k closed both, F closed 1. Both times fair drunk, controversial I know. Basically need a couple of texts that have a very low chance of failure just to establish a connection. I want one of these as a person to see when I come visit as its long distance. Obviously the cousin is an issue as I don't wanna be rejected in front of family Any ideas?

Here's one of my personal favorites;

'I was just thinking about licking your ankles and working my way slowly up your calves and then.....'

9 times out of 10 she'll text back and ask whats next. This text was like gold for me, seriously!

If it bombs just text back; 'sorry wrong person' and move on.

Good luck!

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to benedict ttyler.....

how many times have u used this opener? lolol
i like it and might use it BUT i was wondering how many times u used it llol

I like the opener about licking toes and ankles. I would like to hear more of what guys are saying to open over text as well. I generally over think texts and try to be clever cocky/funny. Any good texts that will generate attraction?? pls post.

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Send her a blank text, she'll probably reply with something like 'why did u jst send me a blank txt?'. Then you can just text back saying 'You're just trying to find any excuse to talk to me! ' or something on those lines and take it from there

Some crazy stuff!

this is stupid..imo. not tring to cut u down here spawn but its just not the best way to open via text lol.

this1 i love and i have used many times... works about 85%+ and if the girl is cool and outgoing... this has never failed for me. Ever.


you "so i was thinking... lets rob a bank, i need a partner.."
her "what?" or "ok lets do it!" or "id b down if i wasnt illegal!"
you "Seriously i need a partner... are you driving or shooting? "
her "haha im driving" "ill do the shooting im great and handling guns "
you "pick u up tom" or blah blah whatever from there... but this1 is golden.


Duke

Juice man, i use it, or a variation of it all the time. For me it has always been magic. Women are far more motivated by metaphor and sublinal persuasion, not vulgar porn/sex talk. i personally believe every guy should learn a bit of poetry and use it when communicating with girls. i always get accused of being massively non-alpha for this but it always works for me.

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Hey cha, i always used to use the cocky/funny approach. Although I still rate it highly I think we can get blinkered to other ways of communicating. I already alluded to using 'poetic' type language in this post and I think every guy should at least try it.

Here's an example; 'I want to light a thousand candles around you and watch the flames dance in your eyes...'

Now most guys would say woooah! that's sooooo not alpha! or 'Dude, you're making me cringe', but the fact is this got me laid, a lot. It worked great as both email and text.

I dont believe every technique works 100% of the time but I'll take 90% no problem. I guess it comes down to tial and error.

Let me know how you get on

BT

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I would suggest something more subtle yet playful. Like, "Guess Who!?"
Her: Idk?
You: Try and guess (Her Name).... As you can see I know who you are...
Her: Can I have a hint?
You: I don't give hints... I'm not Regis...

Than basically you wanna say "Haha, I sooo got you!" This is good if your like texting her for the first time, it builds interest and shows your a joker and just don't care... If it's done right.

But you can still use the Guess Who Opener if it's not the FIRST time you've texted her, just take it in a different direction - like a playful role-playing game.

Cheers!

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@ Benedict. If you are right then that is out of my comfort zone.

But why would you say that is not alpha. If anything I would feel that this is alpha. It takes balls to tell a women how you feel. Or rather...

Think of it like this: Any girl you want you would want to do exactly what you said. And things of that sexual tone lead to sex. So it is a step in the right direction.

But the general vibe of your answers make me think your right.

Personally the only think I worry about because I am older is that I may be seen as a creep. But that is a internal fear not entirely external.

I am going to sac up and try the candle one. I will post how it works.

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So I do not know about that text opener. The one with the candles; reaction is kind of mixed.

I got told that it was kind of weird. I know that is not good.

But then I established some report. So it was ok. But I would just say ok with the text opener. It depends, I am in college. So if you have built up some keno with a girl it may go over better. I feel like one should have built up some keno first before you use this one.

I was just testing it out on this chick I knew.

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Hey Cha,

Well done for trying it out. Initially I got mixed receptions but even the girls who later said it seemed a bit soppy still dated me.

Go by results, not what people say, thats my theory.

That said, perhaps use it on girls you've established some rapport with first. Keep things in context etc

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Hey Benedict, I think your right this one is about calibration. I did not have enough report with my target.

as far as trying. I will try almost anything new to change my results. I love this thread and this forum.

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