Ok. So this girl I'm with really likes me. She's almost obsessed with me. And I really like her too. Anyway these past few days ive been too busy with school to text her. And yesterday she randomly text me and said "I'm done" I texted back an hour later and said "why"? And she never texted me back. Im pretty sure she's just mad because I haven't been able to talk to her for a few days. And she's just playing mind games with me. Anyway, what should I say to her? I want her back. What should I do? Thanks guys.

i would have texted back...

"Well, you better stick a fork in yourself, Baby. Me, on the other hand, I'm just getting started. And it's a DAMN shame you are going to miss all of this awesomeness! Ciao!"

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Reply "took you long enough" and game other girls in front of her if its possible...watch her come running back.

What if I texted her and said. "k. Well I'm sorry if I haven't been able to talk to you for a few days, but I'm a college man now. And I need to be out having fun. Not sitting around getting dumped every week. Bye

um no, why would you feel compelled to text her back "explaining" your behavior, as though you were a child explaining your innapropriate mischief?

wtf?

are you a child? do you answer to her? did you do anything wrong? were you inappropriate in your dealings with her? OR, IS SHE JUST BEING UNREALISTIC?

if she is just being unrealistic, do NOT explain yourself and justify your actions...if you do...you will set the precedent that she can "put you on the spot" whenever she feels like it and you will SNAP TO (like a little bitch) and beg for forgiveness from Her Highness for offending her sensibilities.

don't go there.

do, as i previously stated. or the other poster.

this will put HER on the defensive for HER inappropriate and spastic behavior (as it should be)

be a man.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

also...

"too busy to text"?

that is subjective.

you too busy, to take thirty seconds and send her a thought?

really 'that' busy?

maybe there is two sides.

i would be pissed if my "steady" said she was "too busy" for three days to send me a single text. especially when it takes ten seconds.

what were you hoping to achieve by not texting her at all? was there something else going on here? shit test? freezeout?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

no nothing else was going on. i was just super busy and really didnt feel like talking to her at the time. and also i cant say what you or the other poster said cuz i allready replied to her and said "why" if i said anything it would have to be something that i could just strait up say, not a reply to her. any thoughts? suggestions? You think I was hard on her by not texting her for 4 days?

btw thank you guys for your help, it is greatly appreciated.

Should I talk to her?

k. i texted her but shes not responding.

K she texted back and said she's not interested cuz I never send nudes like I promise and she said she just wants to be friends. I texted her and said that's fine with me and I said goodbye I'll talk to you tomorrow. This was all spread out over a conversation. What do I do?

Well, you won't get it anytime soon... Friend zoned, move on. You shouldn't have accepted being "a friend", since, in my opinion, by accepting her proposal, you're just showing up as needy.

Forget completely about her, go sarging, and find several other girls (before you get oneitis with that friend.

She sounds nuts. Bail. You can give it a shot a few weeks down the road.

no she just wants me to think i got friend zoned. shes kinda crazy, and clingy. she does this all the time. Like giving me rediculously huge shit tests.

What about you Dr?

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