hey I'm into this chick that broke up with a guy about 2 months ago and shes giving me this line "I dont want to be with anyone right now" but check it out --> she invites me out to overnight stays in a couple of local party towns & sets me up to ask her out over & over this chick MAYBE is diggin on me and her friends (all of them) tell her to hook up with me,... This is what I'm getting out of it - she wants me to suplicate for her attention in frount of her friends for her own (social proof ((she was just dumped))) I dont suplicate, I have so far treated her tactics as playfull but I think she really may want to hook up - or it could be she wants to feel needed I dont friggin know whats up - shes one of those poker face people too, shows no emotion - I guess I'm having trouble reading her but I wont suplicate to her for her own validation in frount of her friends. I'm most curious as to your thoughts on this. I just gave her a call to do the sensuality test but she was doing some medical crap (shes a nurse) and I said Id "call her later" and she was all "whow, like when do you mean tomorrow, tomorrow night the next day? when will you call me?" she was trippin because for the last couple of weeks its been her doing ALL the calling and 1/2 the time I tell her I have to go right away. she calls 4 or 5 times a day and has been sending nude shots of her and her lil chick friends.

Hit me back, Steve

ok heres what you do

POST THE PICS LOL

Look dude sounds to me like your making too bigger deal out of it. If she wants you (which it seems like she does) just fucking go for it and if it turns sour then shit happens. Why give a fuck?

Ask yourself this, what the hell have you got to lose?

Go with the flow and see what happens.

Post the pics. Fuck her (she wants it; she's sending nude shots; she wants it). Then post the video of that, lol. Congrats, man, this one's pretty much in the bag.

Dude

Sounds like the classic push pull type of technique which appears to work well. Even if you don't know it you are obviously playing her but if you like her just go for it. But watch out for One Itis if you want to keep her!

Good work

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