i dated a girls and we met three times....we just kissed and touched nothing more....everything was going allright and last time i met her we agreed to meet againg in a week.....after that i texted her and called her but she didn't anwer.She didn't answer two of my textes and two of my calls in a whole week so after that i decided not to contact her again....i called her after 3 weeks, she didn't answer but an hour later she texted me and she told me she didn't hear the phone....she seems still interested.
We were never been friends on facebook before so i'd like to add her (i don't know her last name and probably she doesn't know mine).
I'd like to send her a text and tell her to add me or give me her surname so i can add her.
what do you think is the best line to write to create interest (think about that previously she wanted to add me) and make her accept that.
I would write like this:
Hi, how are you ? i was thinking that we spoke about adding each others but we never did......add me my name is "xxxxxxx xxxxxxx" or give me your full name so i can add you.see you soon.
i think my line is just ok but doesn't create curiosity....do you guys have advices for a better line......something that create more curiosity and make her want to add me on f.b ?

no! never add a girl on facebook until if she is the one that ask.

Plz man dont do this if you are PUA. If you thinking to write that kind of message it sounds more like that you are desperate. If the girl dosent aswer to your messages I think that its not the right time to invite that girl.

Lets think I dont know how you spend time with her, but put you in her position. If some girl like to text you but you dont aswer that is sing that MABY she isnt intrested of you SPAM. There is more fish in the see, or you need to work whit that girl face to face.

Personally, I think that what is wrong here is your focus.
What I usually do is get a girl´s # and full name at the same time when I first met her or worst case scenario ask for it in the first date the latest.

The reason I do that is because a quick look in her facebook lets you know a lot about her, mainly if she likes to go out clubbing, her relationship status, how flirty she is and if other guys are currently hitting on her. That really helps me define my strategy and if she is worth my time.
Also, one of the most important reason to ask for her facebook is because even if something goes wrong you got a long-term tool for contacting her (supposing she is worth it).

Asking it later or out of nowhere will most surely be perceived as needy.
I strongly advice to think of something else.

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i know isn't the best situation and you and the other people are right if she doesn't ansewer texts something went wrong.
Anyway when we dated she was interested in my facebook so i'm pretty sure she will add me......even if she won't i want to use this as my last chance with her.....what do i have to lose ? nothing. so why should i quit now ?
i want to try and i want to do in the best way that's why i asked for advices.
I need some good sentences for asking her to add me on facebook and i need something that would make her courious.
And let's forget this girl for a second, i still need some good sentecens to use to others girls in fact is too long to explain but i got a couple fo numbers but i didn't have time to ask for facebook, i spoke to those girls for 3 minutes each and i got their number.......i'm not going to meet them again in real life unless i call them......the problem is that due to the situation (too long to be explained here ) they need to know my name and trust me otherwise they will be scared to hang out with a stranger.........seeing who i am on facebook would be good and would give them a sense of security.
That's why i still need some good senteces to text them and asking for add me
who have any advices ?

I don't know. I insist that the problem is not how to ask for facebook contact, you need to make more quality approaches.

3 minutes approach, phone close? You got yourself a strong recipe for flake, why bother with fb? I'd go directly to text game or a date invitation.
Facebook is a tool not a goal, it will come along the way if needed.

My two cents...

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probably i wasn't that clear when i explained the situation, it's my fault.
Guys to make it easier just assume that i have only one option for some reasons that are too long to be explained here.
i have to add her on facebook, i have to ask her for her contact or for adding me.
So my question again is.....what is a good line that doesn't sound too cheesy to ask her to add me ?
Please guys don't tell me just quit or use another option and don't use facebook. i have to use facebook this time